That means with regards to this thread,
I believe not everyone has the ability to be motivated. And those that do, have multiple personalities constantly affecting their motivation.
Ill address accordingly.
How to find the motivation to do something.
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That means with regards to this thread,
I believe not everyone has the ability to be motivated. And those that do, have multiple personalities constantly affecting their motivation.
Ill address accordingly.
that they lack self-determination; which is a combination of self-control & self-legislation i.e
the ability to write laws in place that will help attain an aim while suppressing desires that directly/indirectly disrupt it.
Obviously the "how" of this thread will fail those who don't possess this quality.
Some will disagree & claim everyone possesses it.
And yet still fail.
But there is room to work and generate motivation for those who have none,
(assuming they possess the trait in temperament).
1st - a source that generates motivation.
2nd - to protect the motivation’s longevity.
The 1st is achieved with self-contempt.
The 2nd is achieved through self-control.
This means there needs to be a reason for someone to behave in such particular way.
That reason is purpose or an objective.
A. Take stock of your current state of conditions.
B. Fantasise an ideal state of condition (doesn't matter if short-term).
Then make decisions that help you move from A to B.
Once achieved, set another purpose, this time with a longer timeframe.
One way is to live in contempt or oppression - it develops intensity to escape.
For eg: People who say 'don't work in a job you hate' dont consider the fact that the job you hate could well be the catalyst in achieving your purpose.
Meaning: set an aim so high, that it makes your current situation suffer drastically in comparison,
WITHOUT obscuring the reality of achieving it.
Dark/negative emotions when concentrated into a desire to achieve, is an unmatched source of motivation.
If it doesn't, then what you have doesn't suffer enough compared to what you want,
OR
you're the type that lacks the self-determination capacity.
you then have to protect that motivation from your multiple personalities, all which come with their own set of urges & aims that directly conflict with yours.
if his lust constantly aims to attain sexual pleasures by putting him in places that seek out women.
This is the essence of shadow integration, keeping your other selves in check.
Urges under your voluntary control will be prevented from undermining your motivation towards your aim.
This is what the 8th is all about; understanding your multiple personalities & developing a central governing-self through shadow work.
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👨💻 Last resume I sent to a startup one year ago, sharing with you to get ideas:
- Forget what you don't have, make your strength bold
- Pick one work experience and explain what you did in detail w/ bullet points
- Write it towards the role you apply
- Give social proof
/thread
"But I got no work experience..."
Make a open source lib, make a small side project for yourself, do freelance work, ask friends to work with them, no friends? Find friends on Github, and Twitter.
Bonus points:
- Show you care about the company: I used the company's brand font and gradient for in the resume for my name and "Thank You" note.
- Don't list 15 things and libraries you worked with, pick the most related ones to the role you're applying.
-🙅♂️"copy cover letter"
"I got no firends, no work"
One practical way is to reach out to conferences and offer to make their website for free. But make sure to do it good. You'll get:
- a project for portfolio
- new friends
- work experience
- learnt new stuff
- new thing for Twitter bio
If you don't even have the skills yet, why not try your chance for @LambdaSchool? No? @freeCodeCamp. Still not? Pick something from here and learn https://t.co/7NPS1zbLTi
You'll feel very overwhelmed, no escape, just acknowledge it and keep pushing.
- Forget what you don't have, make your strength bold
- Pick one work experience and explain what you did in detail w/ bullet points
- Write it towards the role you apply
- Give social proof
/thread
"But I got no work experience..."
Make a open source lib, make a small side project for yourself, do freelance work, ask friends to work with them, no friends? Find friends on Github, and Twitter.
Bonus points:
- Show you care about the company: I used the company's brand font and gradient for in the resume for my name and "Thank You" note.
- Don't list 15 things and libraries you worked with, pick the most related ones to the role you're applying.
-🙅♂️"copy cover letter"
"I got no firends, no work"
One practical way is to reach out to conferences and offer to make their website for free. But make sure to do it good. You'll get:
- a project for portfolio
- new friends
- work experience
- learnt new stuff
- new thing for Twitter bio
If you don't even have the skills yet, why not try your chance for @LambdaSchool? No? @freeCodeCamp. Still not? Pick something from here and learn https://t.co/7NPS1zbLTi
You'll feel very overwhelmed, no escape, just acknowledge it and keep pushing.
1/“What would need to be true for you to….X”
Why is this the most powerful question you can ask when attempting to reach an agreement with another human being or organization?
A thread, co-written by @deanmbrody:
2/ First, “X” could be lots of things. Examples: What would need to be true for you to
- “Feel it's in our best interest for me to be CMO"
- “Feel that we’re in a good place as a company”
- “Feel that we’re on the same page”
- “Feel that we both got what we wanted from this deal
3/ Normally, we aren’t that direct. Example from startup/VC land:
Founders leave VC meetings thinking that every VC will invest, but they rarely do.
Worse over, the founders don’t know what they need to do in order to be fundable.
4/ So why should you ask the magic Q?
To get clarity.
You want to know where you stand, and what it takes to get what you want in a way that also gets them what they want.
It also holds them (mentally) accountable once the thing they need becomes true.
5/ Staying in the context of soliciting investors, the question is “what would need to be true for you to want to invest (or partner with us on this journey, etc)?”
Multiple responses to this question are likely to deliver a positive result.
Why is this the most powerful question you can ask when attempting to reach an agreement with another human being or organization?
A thread, co-written by @deanmbrody:
Next level tactic when closing a sale, candidate, or investment:
— Erik Torenberg (@eriktorenberg) February 27, 2018
Ask: \u201cWhat needs to be true for you to be all in?\u201d
You'll usually get an explicit answer that you might not get otherwise. It also holds them accountable once the thing they need becomes true.
2/ First, “X” could be lots of things. Examples: What would need to be true for you to
- “Feel it's in our best interest for me to be CMO"
- “Feel that we’re in a good place as a company”
- “Feel that we’re on the same page”
- “Feel that we both got what we wanted from this deal
3/ Normally, we aren’t that direct. Example from startup/VC land:
Founders leave VC meetings thinking that every VC will invest, but they rarely do.
Worse over, the founders don’t know what they need to do in order to be fundable.
4/ So why should you ask the magic Q?
To get clarity.
You want to know where you stand, and what it takes to get what you want in a way that also gets them what they want.
It also holds them (mentally) accountable once the thing they need becomes true.
5/ Staying in the context of soliciting investors, the question is “what would need to be true for you to want to invest (or partner with us on this journey, etc)?”
Multiple responses to this question are likely to deliver a positive result.
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