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The reasons for this, is that literature before O'Nions et al (2016), the LWC PDA DISCO paper viewed social demand avoidance to be manipulative. Also that two tools derived from original PDA DISCO questions view such behaviours as manipulative.
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The reasons for this, is that literature before O'Nions et al (2016), the LWC PDA DISCO paper viewed social demand avoidance to be manipulative. Also that two tools derived from original PDA DISCO questions view such behaviours as manipulative.
— Richard Woods (@Richard_Autism) December 26, 2020
Here are the 3 reasons... (a short thread) 👇
Es muss sein - Beethoven.
(1) Lin Wood, defamation lawyer who just won over half a billion dollars for his client, Nick Sandmann, saying Chief Justice John Roberts is guilty of human trafficking and Jeffrey Epstein is alive.
Do you really think a defamation lawyer would say this if it weren't true? 👇
And #LinWood is trending right now. 3x more tweets than #TimesSquare. 👇
(2) News is spreading that the Obama administration knowingly funded terror-linked organization.
This is from a new report just released before Christmas from @ChuckGrassley -- Read it here: https://t.co/RmgwRl2hqm
Why is this important to our timeline? 👇
So how does @xuenay do
5/ But I don't want to have to wait to share these models! I've already begun to share them with coaching clients, with great results.
— Matty G (@mattgoldenberg) January 7, 2021
So over the next few weeks, I want to do a few tweetstorms sharing the https://t.co/WlcYFIARFW models. I'll quote tweet them in this thread.
2/ Like with all of these models, this is inspired by interview @xuenay but not necessarily endorsed by him. There's a necessary translation process that goes from his head to my head to paper!
3/Let's first talk about beliefs and motivations. What's his primary motivation to start this process?
For him, it's a process of seeing people disagree, and feeling a visceral sense of frustration at people talking post each other.
5/ For him, it's almost a proprioceptive sense of two different shapes. One person is saying circle, and the other is hearing square. It's really important to make these shapes match up!
6/ There are two underlying values here. The less salient one is wanting a sense of admiration from others. It's really nice to get praise for creating good explanations that unify two viewpoints.
I cannot explain it, but it seems like the concept of "separation of powers" has become deeply alien and upsetting to most people. *Nothing* can be independent. And so we keep blurring the powers, and it causes systemic dysfunction. There's no long-term view.
— Kerry (@kerry62189) December 24, 2020
Naturally, this tends to lessen the public's respect for the whole system. It doesn't sound very attractive, or at least sounds like a particularly inefficient way of guarding against radical change. "They wanted to force compromise," is better, but also backfires.
It confuses the public into being mad that everyone "can't just get a long and compromise," like it's a matter of personal attitudes and conflict is a sign something is wrong. A more invigorating and accurate framing:
We've basically inverted this framing into something very demoralizing. "Congress isn't supposed to do anything," rather than "Congress is gunning for a showdown." And we're so confused that one of the impeachment charges against Trump was "Obstruction of Congress."
The point is that the branches were supposed to be actively tactical, and were given a set of tools to use against each other. Not "do nothing."
This is very important for people in leadership positions. \u201cHey, have a second?\u201d can send someone with anxiety into a world of panic. Did I mess something up? Am
— Seth Vargo (@sethvargo) January 23, 2021
I getting fired? Is my manager quitting? Is the company going under? https://t.co/AFltjJ0NNe
Once, long ago, my manager came to me on a Friday afternoon: "Are you going to be here on Monday?" 2/
Now, this is the 1990s: to work from home, you needed a modem (!!) -- and at the time, I owned no computer so even that wasn't happening. So I was emphatically going to be there on Monday, if for no other reason that I had nowhere else to work. 3/
"Yes, of course I'm going to be here on Monday."
"Okay, we need to talk Monday."
"Is there something wrong? Can we talk now?"
"Let's talk Monday." 4/
My early-twentysomething self was (obviously?) very anxious, so I immediately went to the office of the senior engineer in the group (and my mentor), Jeff Bonwick to see if he knew of anything that I might have screwed up... 5/
If you see someone cool having a horrible time on the internet, reach out. It's a time when someone's whole world is crumbling, and the real goal isn't just harassment. It's isolation; cutting people off.
And out of those kinds of letters I met a young woman named @SarahTaber_bww who had a lot to say about ag tech and asked me if I thought she should.
— Melinda Byerley (@MJB_SF) January 7, 2021
Fortunately for all of us she ignored my advice. Her friendship and wisdom would not be in my life without this experience. \U0001f496\U0001f4aa\U0001f3fb pic.twitter.com/bYfNXJRiMw
Melinda's experience is also a great example of the "Don't scream" principle.
e.g. If somebody's kidnapping you & trying to hustle you into a car and they say "Don't scream," why are they saying that? It's bc they need silence to get away with the crime.
So you should yell.
It's funny. They'll tell you exactly how to beat them, if you listen.
If you have a moment, read through the thread & screenshots of all the threatening emails.
Notice anything odd? They're not so much threats, as they are orders. Do this! Don't do that!
Let's lay aside the sheer windbag-itude of issuing orders, in full seriousness, to strangers on LinkedIn when you can't even spell properly
There's a reason lots of people's response to Melinda speaking harsh truths about white-dominated rural areas
was to issue orders to STOP.
And orders to "make it right" by groveling on platforms where even more angry white nationalists would discover her.