It isn't to drink coffee or get 8 hours of sleep or use Notion
It is conquering your fears. Period.
When I was 17, I was in a school shooting. It was traumatic
I'm convinced that overcoming fear is the secret to winning at startups, business and life:
Here's some tips and lessons on overcoming FEAR:
It isn't to drink coffee or get 8 hours of sleep or use Notion
It is conquering your fears. Period.
"Adjusted for the subjective increase in how fast time passes, life is half over by 23 or 24. Don't waste time."
h/t @samaltman
Time is ticking
Amygdala = the part of your brain that registers all your fear
When you have an experience that creates fear, it gets "coded" into your brain
For the rest of your life, your amygdala, is tainted with your past experience
Arm wrestle your amygdala and win
Mindset shift: use fear to learn & motivate, not run away & demotivate
Stop putting yourself out there. Don't do anything worthwhile. Care about what others think about you
That's a sad way to live
Point: A healthy amount of fear is healthy
Just have fun and know that you're sailing into unknown waters
You might find gold or you might not, but I promise it will be a hell of a journey
- Get a safe job and stick with it
- Don’t question the established order
- Don’t talk to strangers
- Go to college
- Always have a plan B
- etc.
Often times these "truths" drive the worst decisions
Are the butterflies in your stomach nervousness or excitement‽
Is your heart racing because of terror or because of eager anticipation?
Are you scared or are you pumped up?
Reframing is a bravery superpower
Asking people to follow me on Twitter
Doing it anyways
Follow me on Twitter @gregisenberg as I share startup tips and insights on building internet communities
It brings "the positive motivation loop" (h/t @nateliason)
Take large fear: break it up to many mini-fears. If you want to run 5k, start buy running around the block
Crawl. Walk. Run.
“Whatever you’re doing, don’t give a voice to things you’re not able to change.” - Vince Vaughn
Habit: write down your knowns & unknowns every single week
Let them know there are no bears running after them. Most fears aren't due to real danger
Unlock their potential
- Fear of change
- Fear of danger
- Fear of the unknown
- Fear of being judged
- Fear of being scared
What am I missing?
- Retirement plans
- Heated blankets
- Insurance
- Substances
Don't blindly buy into products that sell "security"
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