I went from "shyest man alive" to speaking on stage.
If you're a man struggling with confidence, read this:
I was arguably the shyest man alive.
I feared rejection
I rarely spoke up
I barely made new friends or approached women
People told me to my face "why do you never talk?"
Today I've realized the root of why I was so shy (you may have a huge epiphany moment reading this)...
As humans, we have a strong instinct to be liked by the people around us.
You see, 2000 years ago roaming the earth in tribes, you NEEDED to be liked or else you'd get kicked from your tribe, and face the mountain lions, disease, & conditions by yourself (basically meant death).
My route to achieve this human instinct - to be liked, was speak as little as possible.
Other people take a different route - speak as much as possible.
But at the end of the day, we are all aiming to be liked.
Now, I knew the root cause... how did I overcome this lack of confidence?
1st - you must accept shyness does not serve you.
Once you fully accept this and are open to change, there are 7 keys I identified that helped me become confident.
Here are the 7 keys to confidence:
