And the decade is near its end, already. As I reflect on the decade with so much of gratitude, listing down some of my learnings that has shaped my life!

#1 : Nothing is permanent. People, Feelings, Situations. We always think and believe we’ll hold on to things forever, but everything is fluid and transforms as it’s destined to be.
#2 : Things that we yearn for - Holidays, Homes, Cars bring momentary happiness. What makes you happy everyday is a purpose that you believe in, and seeing that purpose take shape.
#3 : There is no substitute for hard work. There is never any short cut. Short cuts give temporary results. Hard work builds the foundation.
#4: Unclosed Loops come back and haunt you. Years, sometimes decades later, but they do.
#5: It needs far more courage not to fit into society’s definition of a good life, than people think. Misfits need to convince themselves that they are having a good life to themselves far more than to others.
#6 : Role of luck is underrated in our conversations. From the people you meet, to the situation you are in - luck definitely plays a role. Realising this, has definitely made me a humble person.
#7: We take life for granted. Having witnessed 3 cancers in my family last decade, I realised how simple things like having a dinner out can be a dream for people who don’t know what’s in store for them the next day.
#8: No matter what situation we are in, being grateful restores faith and faith is what is always needed.
#9: A heart to heart conversation solves most of the problems.
#10: Resolutions don’t need a Monday or a 1st to start. They can start the moment you are determined.

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Imagine if Christians sold all their possessions and gave it to the poor.

Imagine if they relentlessly stood up for the widow, the orphan, and the foreigner.

Imagine if they worshipped a God whose response to political power was to reject it.

Or cancelled all debt owed them?

Imagine if the primary orientation of Christians was what others needed, not what they deserved.

Imagine Christians with no interest in protecting what they had.

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Imagine Christians who saved their forgiveness and mercy for others, rather than saving it for themselves.

Whose empathy went first to the abused, not the abuser.

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