How to respond like a Sabi Boy/ Enlightened alpha/ Zen Alpha, when she asks...

Her: Sabi Boy, are you still seeing other girls?

Her: Sabi Boy, have you had sex with any new girls lately?
She finds something at your place that belongs to another girl

Her: Sabi Boy, whose earrings are these?
A call comes in from another girl and the girl with you currently sees it

Her: who is that?
Understand that women aren't stupid

Their intuition is actually sharper than that of the average man

Unless she's a complete imbecile, she knows what all these things mean

It means

1. You have other women in your life
2. You're not sharing the details
3. It's not a big deal
Now most women will simply hear these and follow your lead when you change the topic

(granted that you haven't been acting like a pussy or engaging in boyfriend behaviors too soon)

but some particularly Needy women will pester you for tangible answers...

Here's what to do
1. Give another sarcastic answer and change the topic

2. If she still pesters, firmly state that you don't want to discuss it as it is too early to do so (which it is)

3. If she gets upset or pesters further... Time to soft next my brother
All of these are best used in the beginning when she's still a friends with benefits or a lite relationship and you're not moving too fast

You can't engage in these forever however and one day you'll have to tell her the truth

The beauty is that by then, it won't surprise her
And that's what you want...

Later on that
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1/“What would need to be true for you to….X”

Why is this the most powerful question you can ask when attempting to reach an agreement with another human being or organization?

A thread, co-written by @deanmbrody:


2/ First, “X” could be lots of things. Examples: What would need to be true for you to

- “Feel it's in our best interest for me to be CMO"
- “Feel that we’re in a good place as a company”
- “Feel that we’re on the same page”
- “Feel that we both got what we wanted from this deal

3/ Normally, we aren’t that direct. Example from startup/VC land:

Founders leave VC meetings thinking that every VC will invest, but they rarely do.

Worse over, the founders don’t know what they need to do in order to be fundable.

4/ So why should you ask the magic Q?

To get clarity.

You want to know where you stand, and what it takes to get what you want in a way that also gets them what they want.

It also holds them (mentally) accountable once the thing they need becomes true.

5/ Staying in the context of soliciting investors, the question is “what would need to be true for you to want to invest (or partner with us on this journey, etc)?”

Multiple responses to this question are likely to deliver a positive result.
TW: suicidal ideation.

At the darkest days of the abuse I was being subjected to I decided to attend a conference for women in Los Angeles. I convinced my mother in law to pay for it because I couldn’t afford it. @ChristineCaine was preaching. I was desperate...
1/


I wanted to die, I didn’t see a way out and I had tried everything. I imagined many ways to die daily. The most recurring one was throwing my car down a bridge I had to drive over every day. I never did it because my kids were in the car and I was afraid one of them would...

2/

survive or I’d kill someone on the way down.

Christine spoke about honoring your pastors even when they weren’t great, she spoke of us expecting too much of pastors and how wrong that was. She said God would use our testimony if we submitted to our pastors.

3/

She said “honor your pastors, God will honor you.” She said more about having disagreed with her pastors but she submitted and God honored her and now she’s blessed. How if they are faithfully serving God, we need to support them and not forfeit what God has for us.

4/

I felt my heart drop into my stomach. I got up and went to the bathroom because I couldn’t breath and I felt like I was going to faint if I didn’t scream. I now know I was having a panic attack. I sat on the toilet w/my head between my legs, breathed and wept..
5/

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