How to respond like a Sabi Boy/ Enlightened alpha/ Zen Alpha, when she asks...
Her: Sabi Boy, are you still seeing other girls?
Her: Sabi Boy, whose earrings are these?
Their intuition is actually sharper than that of the average man
Unless she's a complete imbecile, she knows what all these things mean
It means
1. You have other women in your life
2. You're not sharing the details
3. It's not a big deal
(granted that you haven't been acting like a pussy or engaging in boyfriend behaviors too soon)
but some particularly Needy women will pester you for tangible answers...
Here's what to do
2. If she still pesters, firmly state that you don't want to discuss it as it is too early to do so (which it is)
3. If she gets upset or pesters further... Time to soft next my brother
You can't engage in these forever however and one day you'll have to tell her the truth
The beauty is that by then, it won't surprise her
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A thread, co-written by @deanmbrody:
Next level tactic when closing a sale, candidate, or investment:
— Erik Torenberg (@eriktorenberg) February 27, 2018
Ask: \u201cWhat needs to be true for you to be all in?\u201d
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Founders leave VC meetings thinking that every VC will invest, but they rarely do.
Worse over, the founders don’t know what they need to do in order to be fundable.
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To get clarity.
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It also holds them (mentally) accountable once the thing they need becomes true.
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Multiple responses to this question are likely to deliver a positive result.
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She said “honor your pastors, God will honor you.” She said more about having disagreed with her pastors but she submitted and God honored her and now she’s blessed. How if they are faithfully serving God, we need to support them and not forfeit what God has for us.
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