How to respond like a Sabi Boy/ Enlightened alpha/ Zen Alpha, when she asks...

Her: Sabi Boy, are you still seeing other girls?

For the Time limited hustler who strives for wealth and freedom, you have 2 choices to make

1. Increase the Value of your Time

2. Completely separate the money you make from the time you spend

Pick whichever sounds nice to your ear before you continue reading this thread

I'd like to

1. Increasing the value of one's time is the realm of very successful business practitioners and self employed men

Musicians, footballers, doctors, etc

Wizkid can get paid millions for a couple of hours

Messi gets paid thousands of dollars for 90 minutes on the pitch

But there's a caveat...

In going down this route, one has to be AMAZING at what they do

What's worse?

Even if you're the best at what you do, other people still get to decide what your time is worth...

18 First Date Rules that'll improve your results with women

1. Never compliment her appearance even if she asks

2. Avoid saying anything outside a brief interesting story about yourself and simple questions for her

3. Let her do most of the talking my brother

4. Never lie. You don't have to answer every question directly.

The easiest way to make a woman come back to you is to hold the door wide open for her when she wants to leave

Go no contact

Don't call

Don't text

Don't hit her up with any new years, happy valentines, merry Christmas, etc

Her body count
Part 2

Signs that she's had sex with 3 to 7 men°

These girls are shy but they're also curious and open to try out new things

If you're pretty good in the bedroom, you'll enjoy teaching these girls

You can be one of the most influential figures in her life if...

you reach her during this phase and teach her how to enjoy sex and understand her body better

These girls are also pretty open too

Here's how you can spot them

1. They will have a fairly strong emotional attachment to you

2. They may or may not fall in love with you quickly

3. might attempt to take charge but they'll give in quickly to alphas

4. suspects you of things but they are calm

5. fluctuates between being shy then excited

6. May seem conservative but also willing to test the waters outside

7. She is unclear about the relationship between sex and love

Women with 3 to 7 body counts are more likely to cheat than the woman with 0 to 2 partners

They are also more likely to have fast and casual sex

She may not necessarily want them, but she is curious... And that's enough

She will put herself in situations where she can be...

Her body count
Part 3

Signs she's had sex with 8 to 19 men°

These women are the most stressful

Their views about love, dating, relationships and sex have been dashed upon the rocks of reality

This leaves them typically angry and cynical about men

Here's how to spot them...

1. They are cautious and hate the fact that they may love you

2. can fall in love quickly but will fight it all the way

3. the most capable of drama at this stage

4. They are usually suspicious and wouldn't believe anything you tell them

5. They try to control themselves...

Other times they let themselves go recklessly

6. Sex for them is purely physical, but she may or may not like this

7. Has sexual preferences

8. She hates the fact that sex doesn't equate to love

These girls are becoming more aware of the reality of life, sex and love and they hate the fact that things are not as they seem. They haven't completely accepted things yet and this is what makes them upset.

If this girl has fast sex with a guy and he doesn't immediately want a relationship with her, she'll hate him for not seeing how amazing she is after she got intimate with him

[🔞 hopekook, rimming] happy vday if you celebrate it, last night i fell asleep thinking about a horny hopekook date where they set aside time to cuddle and watch something soothing and mindless. jk chooses a nature documentary, more for background ambiance than anything else.

they start out with hobi laying crosswise on the couch, and jk crawls between his legs, rests his head on hobi's sternum. he likes to cuddle like that because he can hear hobi's heartbeat. also hobi will usually skritch his scalp when they're in this position.

he's doing that now, running his fingers from jk's forehead to the nape of his neck, but then he scoops along jk's ear instead. fingertips smoothing along the shell curve and then gently tugging on his earlobe. he keeps doing it, repetitive. the apartment is warm.

and quiet, too, except for the doc in the bg and the soft sounds of their breathing. hobi's fingertips keep tugging easily, gently on his ear lobe and all of a sudden jk realizes he's getting hard. he doesn't pay it much mind, one or both of them often do when they cuddle, even

if it's just a cuddle session & not anything further. but then hobi moves his leg, feels it, laughs softly, & moves his leg again - this time, deliberately. jk smiles, rubbing his mouth against hobi's sweatshirt. he rolls his hips, real slow like, and feels hobi's dick, too.

I’ve put together my list of top 10 tips for early career researchers and I’m going to share it here as promised. But first a disclaimer...I don’t know everything. This list is based on my experience in academia. I would love for others to add and augment. With that in mind....🧵

1: Decide what you want your LIFE to be. This career could consume you completely if you let it, but it won’t always love you. Focus on the other things in your life that bring you joy and fulfillment and cultivate those just as much as you cultivate your research career.

2: Decide what you want your CAREER to be. What are your values? What are you in this for? There will be hard times. But knowing your values and what success means to you can help guide you through them.

3: Decide whose opinions really matter to you. Mastery requires feedback and you will get a lot of it, some useful some less so. Identify the small circle of people you can really trust to give it to you straight. This includes forming a no committee.

4: People are people are people. Don’t be afraid to email someone about a postdoc or job or grant idea. We’ve all been there. Some people are not generous people. This is good information to have. Move on to other colleagues and mentors if you encounter these people.

MY JOURNEY AS A DIESEL PLANT FITTER
My journey started in March 2005 when I got an offer of apprenticeship from CMED. I knew nothing about cars and earthmoving equipment.

I also did not know what a Diesel plant fitter was (our education should do better on this front, careers should not be accidental). When I was chasing apprenticeship, I wanted to be an Auto electrician. When the CMED advert came out I did not have a driver’s licence

or learners’ licence, which is a prerequisite if you want to train in the Automotive industry. Diesel Plant Fitting is classified under the Mechanical Industry, so a driver’s licence is not required on application. I was, however, asked for it during my interview and I had one

The interview was hilarious, I cracked their ribs every now and then but that is where I learnt how to take control of an interview. (I knew no one there as well). I told them from the onset that I knew nothing about the trade, but keen to learn, that is why I applied

They asked me what I knew about mechanics in general. I responded that I knew bicycle mechanics because that it what we had at home and everything else contained in the O level integrated science book Science in Zimbabwe. So, they asked me about stuff that was in

Stick with me for a story about how the logic of lockdowns can turn into something really sinister.

It begins with a Golden Retriever named Neesha

Neesha and her little pup sibling Harley were lost on an hike, taking in the outdoor air in the Wicklow Mountains.

If you've never been to Ireland, you should understand that these are 1) right near the city where most of the country lives and 2) the most beautiful thing you've ever seen

The dogs had bolted, and the owners had only ben able to find Harley. They thought Neesha was dead. But miraculously, two doctors on a hike in Wicklow found Neesha almost two full weeks later

She lost a third of her body weight, but now she is at home, snuggled up and warm with her family.