Now, what is unusual about the photo?
You don’t have even the beginning of a facility for critical thought, do you? Can you read images in a thinking mode, i.e. through a critical semiotic lens?
Let’s begin (it won’t take long, I promise; this is quite straightforward).
Now, what is unusual about the photo?
What are the semiotics of blindfolding, Becca?
That’s right; being deprived of one’s sight by something that can be put on - and taken off.
No; it is made of deep pink satin roses.
What might deep pink satin roses symbolise? What are the associations?
What does that tell us in this instance?
Let’s take a short break for reflection and/or discussion of that suggestion. It’s rather important, don’t you think?
The two words - ‘material’ and ‘girls’ are coloured differently.
‘Material’ is yellow, and stands out from all other elements on the page. Think about yellow in nature and the human world. What does yellow communicate?
Yellow is the colour of "hey - right here; pay attention!"
Let's go back to the meaning of the word that is yellow, which we can now deduce as important to the interpretation of this book cover.
a) is likely to be written in an engaging and approachable manner, and
b) draws our attention to the tensions between the materiality of being female (sex) and the cultural baggage attached to 'being a girl' (what we might summarise as gender).
If we bother to read it, that is.
I will.
The girl in the picture can only see it, and form her own relation to what it symbolises, if she takes it off. She can't see what blinds her, until she looks at it clearly.
That's your take-home message.
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I should mention, this is why I keep talking about this. Because I know so many people who legally CAN'T.
How do I know they have NDAs, if they can't talk legally about them? Because they trusted me with their secrets... after I said something. That's how they knew I was safe.
Some of the people who have reached out to me privately have been sitting with the pain of what happened to them and the regret that they signed for YEARS. But at the time, it didn't seem like they had any other option BUT to sign.
I do not blame *anyone* for signing an NDA, especially when it's attached to a financial lifeline. When you feel like your family's wellbeing is at stake, you'll do anything -- even sign away your own voice -- to provide for them. That's not a "choice"; that's survival.
And yes, many of the people whose stories I now know were pressured into signing an NDA by my husband's ex-employer. Some of whom I *never* would have guessed. People I thought "left well." Turns out, they've just been *very* good at abiding by the terms of their NDA.
(And others who have reached out had similar experiences with other Christian orgs. Turns out abuse, and the use of NDAs to cover up that abuse, is rampant in a LOT of places.)
How do I know they have NDAs, if they can't talk legally about them? Because they trusted me with their secrets... after I said something. That's how they knew I was safe.
And if the environment at the org was toxic or abusive, it is not uncommon to not realize the extent of that toxicity/abuse until after you're out. But by the time you realize that you signed under duress and presumed good faith where none existed, you're out of options.
— Lauren Thoman (@LaurenThoman) February 16, 2021
Some of the people who have reached out to me privately have been sitting with the pain of what happened to them and the regret that they signed for YEARS. But at the time, it didn't seem like they had any other option BUT to sign.
I do not blame *anyone* for signing an NDA, especially when it's attached to a financial lifeline. When you feel like your family's wellbeing is at stake, you'll do anything -- even sign away your own voice -- to provide for them. That's not a "choice"; that's survival.
And yes, many of the people whose stories I now know were pressured into signing an NDA by my husband's ex-employer. Some of whom I *never* would have guessed. People I thought "left well." Turns out, they've just been *very* good at abiding by the terms of their NDA.
(And others who have reached out had similar experiences with other Christian orgs. Turns out abuse, and the use of NDAs to cover up that abuse, is rampant in a LOT of places.)