9 Common Mind Games People Play On You.

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1. Gas Lighting

Using denial, lying, misinformation, and contradiction to make you doubt your sanity, memory and perception.

How to OUTSMART:

Disengage and walk away.
2. Negative Humor

Making critical remarks disguised as sarcasm or humor to make you feel inferior or less secure.

How to OUTSMART:

Remain calm. Smile and put that person in the spotlight by asking questions.
3. Victimhood

Designed to exploit your good will, guilty conscience, protective and nurturing instinct in order to benefit personally.

How to OUTSMART:

Don't get emotionally involved or let go that relationship.
4. Pretend Ignorance

Playing dumb in order to get away with behaviour or things.

How to OUTSMART:

Judge action not intention.
5. Projection

Criticizing others for things they do themselves as well.

How to OUTSMART:

Don't take the bait and remove yourself from the arena.
6. Guilt Tripping

Passive aggressive way to remind you of something bad you did in order to make them want to make up for it.

How to OUTSMART:

Respond with empathy but trust your intuitions.
7. Silent Treatment

Ignoring messages, calls or questions to make you feel uncertain and to make you start doubting yourself.

How to OUTSMART:

Ignore it until it blows over.
8. Constant Criticism

Constantly marginalizing, ridiculing and dismissing you to make you feel inferior and to make them feel superior.

How to OUTSMART:

Say thank you and get on with your life.
9. Throwing a Tantrum

Raising their voice, using a lot of gestures and sometimes even physical abuse to get whatever they want.

How to OUTSMART:

Stay calm. Set boundaries. Give space.
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In Mahabharat,it is described how 'Maharishi Ved Vyasa' gave away his divine vision to Sanjay


Dhritarashtra's charioteer so that he could describe him the events of the upcoming war.

But, even before questions of war could begin, Dhritarashtra asked him to describe how the world looks like from space.

This is how he described the face of the world:

सुदर्शनं प्रवक्ष्यामि द्वीपं तु कुरुनन्दन। परिमण्डलो महाराज द्वीपोऽसौ चक्रसंस्थितः॥
यथा हि पुरुषः पश्येदादर्शे मुखमात्मनः। एवं सुदर्शनद्वीपो दृश्यते चन्द्रमण्डले॥ द्विरंशे पिप्पलस्तत्र द्विरंशे च शशो महान्।

—वेद व्यास, भीष्म पर्व, महाभारत


Meaning:-

हे कुरुनन्दन ! सुदर्शन नामक यह द्वीप चक्र की भाँति गोलाकार स्थित है, जैसे पुरुष दर्पण में अपना मुख देखता है, उसी प्रकार यह द्वीप चन्द्रमण्डल में दिखायी देता है। इसके दो अंशो मे पीपल और दो अंशो मे विशाल शश (खरगोश) दिखायी देता है।


Meaning: "Just like a man sees his face in the mirror, so does the Earth appears in the Universe. In the first part you see leaves of the Peepal Tree, and in the next part you see a Rabbit."

Based on this shloka, Saint Ramanujacharya sketched out the map, but the world laughed