Two words that will help you “nice” folks out
When people ask you for a favor start responding with “It depends”
It will take a lot of pressure off you
Can you do me a favor?
“It depends”
A key to being peaceful is to stop doing shit you don’t want to do / it’s inconvenient
Most people go wrong trying to be nice
That shit never works
People will take advantage.
They will push you to your limits
Take you to the deep end & keep going
Being nice will get you ran over
Be fair. Be kind. Be reasonable.
Not nice