here's the thing: rejection is the worst but *self-rejection* is the kiss of death in publishing. it is a beast only you can slay and banish and it’ll keep creeping up on you and tempting you to give up when things seem hopeless, and it is *on you* to tell it to shut the hell up.

realistic mitigating financial/systemic/personal setbacks aside, you are probably not where you are in your publishing journey in large part because self-rejection is an obstacle you haven’t quite learned to overcome yet, and it is imperative that, well, you figure out how to.
find a way to shut out those thoughts that maybe this is it, maybe you should give up. we all have these thoughts, trust me, i do, too. anyone who says they don’t ever feel this way, at any level of the game, is being laughably disingenuous.
do what you need to do to recalibrate: review and celebrate your progress thus far, call that friend who will give you *the talk* asap, refocus on your goals and adjust them for changing circumstance if need be, but *don’t let yourself get in your own way.*
it's so hard, i get it. but it won’t happen without a strong support system and a certain pigheadedness about your own talent, or how right your instincts are about deserving to be published, or how fantastic and worthy the books you’re pushing out on behalf of others are.
i honestly think this is a business not just of talent and (bucketloads of) patience, but of competitive tenacity. the kind of tenacity that translates into the confidence and determination that’s infectious and necessary for others to believe in your work.
the kind of tenacity that won’t thrive without a strong and mostly unwavering belief in yourself. and lots of support and naps and writing and comfort food and great mentors and more support but YOU GOT THIS OKAY just… don’t doubt yourself. nothing great will happen if you do.

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The Swastik is a geometrical figure and an ancient religious icon. Swastik has been Sanatan Dharma’s symbol of auspiciousness – mangalya since time immemorial.


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"सु अस्ति येन तत स्वस्तिकं"
Swastik is de symbol through which everything auspicios occurs

Scholars believe word’s origin in Vedas,known as Swasti mantra;

"🕉स्वस्ति ना इन्द्रो वृधश्रवाहा
स्वस्ति ना पूषा विश्ववेदाहा
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स्वस्तिनो बृहस्पतिर्दधातु"


It translates to," O famed Indra, redeem us. O Pusha, the beholder of all knowledge, redeem us. Redeem us O Garudji, of limitless speed and O Bruhaspati, redeem us".

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The Swastika represents the living creation in the whole Cosmos.


Hindu astronomers divide the ecliptic circle of cosmos in 27 divisions called
https://t.co/sLeuV1R2eQ this manner a cross forms in 4 directions in the celestial sky. At centre of this cross is Dhruva(Polestar). In a line from Dhruva, the stars known as Saptarishi can be observed.
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