I sat my husband down one day and asked him; 'what do you really need from me? How can I keep making you happy and satisfied?' Oga said; 'good food and sex'. From a logical standpoint, you might be easily fooled to think that this is all he needs but the truth is that, this

is actually what he feels he is not getting enough of or these might just be his priorities. I had to sit down and think about it, if I satisfy him with good food and sex, his needs might either change to another area I am not covering or he might just be contented. I have seen
so many gender wars and lots of takes from the female folks but most times, those same people make outrageous demands compared to what they are willing to offer. You want a man to pamper you, buy you gifts, be there for you, never cheat, make you the center of his world, etc, but
you have not even done the barest minimum to ask him what he needs? In this life, everything comes with a price, and ironically, we all get to choose the price we are willing to pay. Are you willing to selflessly fulfill the desires of a man that fulfills yours? Just the way you
want that diamond ring, a trip to Dubai, someone to massage your back and call you sweet names while checking up on you regularly without having eyes for another woman and you imagine it as your ideal relationship, that man is imagining a wife that will give him great sex, listen
to him when he has a day from work, prepare a warm bath for him, make the bed, prepare a clean set of clothes at home, make lovely dishes and smile disarming smiles to him that will put his mind at ease so that he can be willing to do anything to keep the smile on your face!
nobody, I repeat nobody deserves a selfish and self-serving partner. If you are not willing to pay the price selflessly, you might be paying a bigger price you didn't bargain for. Let us try as much as possible to treat people the way we wish to be treated in their 'style'
everyone has a spec. I have always wanted a man I can build with and also someone I can make an impact in his life. I have always wanted to be so relevant in his life that I will be the center of his world, but it is not wishful thinking. It means that I have to be dependable
and useful. I have to be able to touch his need points and most importantly, I have to be able to understand and care for him in the way he wants to be cared for and more. I have to be able to give him what he can't give himself in ways he can't think of, not going for kaimata or
stuff like that but allowing him to rationally decide to make me the center of his universe without waiving. Love is not a chemical reaction we can't control, love is a rational decision we make because we know and we are sure that this person deserves the keys to our heart
Our soul, Spirit, and body at some point agree together that this person is all we need and we have good reasons to back up our claims. I love reading romance novels, but I don't just read the beautiful stories, I try to analyze their characters and I often understand one thing;
oftentimes, both parties are willing to go to any length to meet the needs of their partners selflessly even if it means inconveniencing themselves. They don't consider roles, they just go with the flow because they love each other. This is why I don't like entering stupid
threads. I can't be demanding a place in your heart by displaying someone else. I don't want to be in anybody's shadows, not even your mother's. I want my unique spot in your heart, I don't even want to fill any void. I want to enlarge that heart of yours to accommodate me!

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महर्षि कश्यप की तेरह पत्नियां थीं।लेकिन विनता व कद्रु नामक अपनी दो पत्नियों से उन्हे विशेष लगाव था।एक दिन महर्षि आनन्दभाव में बैठे थे कि तभी वे दोनों उनके समीप आकर उनके पैर दबाने लगी।


प्रसन्न होकर महर्षि कश्यप बोले,"मुझे तुम दोनों से विशेष लगाव है, इसलिए यदि तुम्हारी कोई विशेष इच्छा हो तो मुझे बताओ। मैं उसे अवश्य पूरा करूंगा ।"

कद्रू बोली,"स्वामी! मेरी इच्छा है कि मैं हज़ार पुत्रों की मां बनूंगी।"
विनता बोली,"स्वामी! मुझे केवल एक पुत्र की मां बनना है जो इतना बलवान हो की कद्रू के हज़ार पुत्रों पर भारी पड़े।"
महर्षि बोले,"शीघ्र ही मैं यज्ञ करूंगा और यज्ञ के उपरांत तुम दोनो की इच्छाएं अवश्य पूर्ण होंगी"।


महर्षि ने यज्ञ किया,विनता व कद्रू को आशीर्वाद देकर तपस्या करने चले गए। कुछ काल पश्चात कद्रू ने हज़ार अंडों से काले सर्पों को जन्म दिया व विनता ने एक अंडे से तेजस्वी बालक को जन्म दिया जिसका नाम गरूड़ रखा।जैसे जैसे समय बीता गरुड़ बलवान होता गया और कद्रू के पुत्रों पर भारी पड़ने लगा


परिणामस्वरूप दिन प्रतिदिन कद्रू व विनता के सम्बंधों में कटुता बढ़ती गयी।एकदिन जब दोनो भ्रमण कर रहीं थी तब कद्रू ने दूर खड़े सफेद घोड़े को देख कर कहा,"बता सकती हो विनता!दूर खड़ा वो घोड़ा किस रंग का है?"
विनता बोली,"सफेद रंग का"।
तो कद्रू बोली,"शर्त लगाती हो? इसकी पूँछ तो काली है"।