Depression in marriages happens to both men & women. While they r many abusive men, women perpetrators r common. Women r controlling, dictate & wear pants in marriages. Some even using love portions to take away husband's freewill r common. Women think it's normal to dominate men

Women groups r full of women who confess on doing strange things to control husbands. If you go to Sekuru Banda's shrine u see many young women looking for ways to attract & keep men under their control. Most often wn these things expire all hell breaks loose. Women play victims
Pastors have destroy families-encourage women to lead husbands &some even forcing them to attend church. Men's God given role is to lead &wife must submit unconditionally.That means husband becomes 1st ministry &even if he is unsaved Bible says to put yourself under his authority
This means as a wife u must choose wisely & don't rush to settle with an unbeliever as God expects u to submit to him "as you do to the Lord". A controlled man is difficult to manage, they rebel &may do bad things just to prove to you that your control has limits.Respect freewill
Love, respect & forgiveness are important.Marriages are under strong spiritual warfare but most of attack happens through character, emotions, personality & lack of self restraint. That's why it's important to pray, reflect &manage these to be able to minimize spiritual attacks.
When u visit a spiritualist for help u open yourself, spouse &family to spirits from that shrine u visit. In fact, spiritualists assign spirits to go with portions that they gave u meaning portion has spirits that will be controlling your spouse making sure s/he does what u want.
Abuse of men is more common &like women there r many men who suffer from emotional & physical abuse from their wives.While its common for women to open up &get support men suffer in silence.Some women get depressed from failure of husband to tolerate abuse.Not all women r victims
Don't be deceived by physical appearances &crocodile tears used to manipulate people.Some wives may be small but spiritually wicked & man will be so controlled. Wn they break the control they are ruthless. Not all men are abusers & not all women r innocent victims. Some r wicked
There r women who wrecked marriages to get the husband for money &status.They r highly motivated & ruthless wn displacing the other woman & use voodoo to help them. Most women have changed & r more aggressive than men.Spiritually balance,guard yourself &family from such parasites

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