Developing psychology & exerting willpower to not eat a pantry full of your favorite snacks
or
Not having those temptations in the house
Many 'solutions' being presented to people don't work
Designed to cope with the problem instead of resolving it
*Thread* - the hack is wack
The Master Life 'Hack' to Solve All Problems
Developing psychology & exerting willpower to not eat a pantry full of your favorite snacks
or
Not having those temptations in the house
Many 'solutions' being presented to people don't work
Designed to cope with the problem instead of resolving it
You can't resolve or remove the darkness
You can only add more light
Recent viral obsessions with 'healing', 'being stoic', 'mental models & psychology'
They all serve their place AFTER the root has been handled
Before adding 'hacks', remove things causing conflict
If a person fears confrontation & is not assertive
Techniques & thinking offer some support, but the real question is
Why is this the default behavior?
All solutions are merely Band-Aids to mask & cope with the symptoms
In reality the real root of his fear of asserting himself & confrontation may likely be:
These max-out the bandwidth available for discomfort,
Therefore there is no more available room to take on additional discomfort (confrontation/assertiveness)
Which further maxes out the bandwidth for uncertainty tolerance & discomfort tolerance
So again we can ask
What is more effective?
OR
- Fixing the chemical stress
- Developing physical strength
- Getting on top of his finances
To actually BE more certain, confident, and assertive
Due to having bandwidth available for discomfort/uncertainty tolerance
But it's something you must do consciously & constantly
Like always remembering to stand up straight for good posture
vs developing muscles/flexibility to have good posture as your default
without 'doing' anything
Instead of applying a technique or 'hack' to compensate for something
Resolve the deficiency itself which then makes your default expression the optimal one
They share many great points which help people
However, pretty much everything shared articulates qualities expressed on how you would act
IF the root issue was not there
Instead of having to do techniques or consciously calculate how to not look needy
....actually develop a life in which you got other sht going on
Multiple sources of good emotions
Multiple emotions for fun & excitement
Important tasks keeping you busy
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