Infant Esoterica:

CONSENSUAL BIRTH PLAN: We did homebirths for both. No meds, no interventions. They went great, wouldn't have changed a thing. Hospital ten minutes away in case we needed it. The important factor is that we CHOSE how we'd give birth. It was fully consensual.

Lack of meds, synthetic oxytocin, pain meds—all that stuff mattered too and if you can skip 'em, it's ideal, but the main thing is engineering a harmonious, celebratory entrance for the kid. That could be in the hospital. That could be at your home.

Figure your plan out.
I won't go into breastfeeding. Obviously you want to do that. To explain fully why would take an entire thread. Maybe later.

Skin-skin contact with both parents is essential. Chest to chest. Doing as as early and often as you can --> lasting connections. https://t.co/1NRK6Z2qAo
DEAD HANGS: From day one, a baby can hold his own weight dangling from a bar. Many ways to test.

Lay them on their back on bed or soft surface, get them to grab your thumbs and start lifting up. They'll come off the ground and relinquish grip when tired. Repeat.
Your baby will just hang fully from your thumbs and drop when done. Do this over a bed, somewhere soft they can safely drop. Expect laughter.

If you do this from day 1 and never stop, you build powerful grip strength. ie normal grip strength, the grip they're meant to have.
CARRYING: We primarily carried our babies everywhere, letting them sit on the forearm close to elbow joint (reduce lever length, avoid bicep tendonitis), giving them opportunity to build postural strength and awareness, neck strength.
Carry in different positions. Slung over shoulder. Sitting on shoulder. Piggy back. Football carry (belly down on forearm, your palm of hand under chest, great for their head control).

Stroller good to have but not exclusively.
A baby is defenseless. First few months is the "4th trimester". Human brains grow so much so fast that we have to come out "early" or else we'd never make it out of the birth canal.

They're adrift in a psychedelic sea of sensory data. You are the anchor as they make sense of it.
Close physical contact in the early months actually sets the kid up to be stronger, more confident, more independent later on. They have the "anchor" and know they can safely navigate the world.

Carrying kids lowers their cortisol, increases mutual oxytocin release.
SUNLIGHT EVERY DAY, NUDE SUNBATHING.

AM sunlight provides infrared light which improves skin UV resilience, helps set circadian rhythm so they sleep better at night.

Midday sunlight provides UVB for vitamin D production.

Suitable dosing depends on ethnicity, skin color, etc.
NATURE EVERY DAY

Trees and plants emit volatile organic compounds to communicate with each other, and we humans can pick up on them (the smells we smell in the forest) and obtain physiological benefits—lower stress, improved immunity. Small humans benefit too.
Babies don't "know" why they like nature. They just do. You're giving them a taste of their evolutionary home-base, their baseline.

Secret to most of this stuff is it's all good for you, too.
ANIMALS: Have pets, preferably dogs. Study after study finds that exposure to dogs in early life improves resistance to allergies and other chronic immune conditions.

Also, dogs make kids happy.
LIGHT AT NIGHT: Don't let baby chill out in the living room late at night with the TV blaring, phone in his face. Blue light/artificial light is just as bad after dark for your baby as it is for you.

Switch house bulbs to warm Edison lights.
Use these: https://t.co/uYTtXQDu72

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make products.

"If only someone would tell me how I can get a startup to notice me."

Make Products.

"I guess it's impossible and I'll never break into the industry."

MAKE PRODUCTS.

Courtesy of @edbrisson's wonderful thread on breaking into comics –
https://t.co/TgNblNSCBj – here is why the same applies to Product Management, too.


There is no better way of learning the craft of product, or proving your potential to employers, than just doing it.

You do not need anybody's permission. We don't have diplomas, nor doctorates. We can barely agree on a single standard of what a Product Manager is supposed to do.

But – there is at least one blindingly obvious industry consensus – a Product Manager makes Products.

And they don't need to be kept at the exact right temperature, given endless resource, or carefully protected in order to do this.

They find their own way.
A brief analysis and comparison of the CSS for Twitter's PWA vs Twitter's legacy desktop website. The difference is dramatic and I'll touch on some reasons why.

Legacy site *downloads* ~630 KB CSS per theme and writing direction.

6,769 rules
9,252 selectors
16.7k declarations
3,370 unique declarations
44 media queries
36 unique colors
50 unique background colors
46 unique font sizes
39 unique z-indices

https://t.co/qyl4Bt1i5x


PWA *incrementally generates* ~30 KB CSS that handles all themes and writing directions.

735 rules
740 selectors
757 declarations
730 unique declarations
0 media queries
11 unique colors
32 unique background colors
15 unique font sizes
7 unique z-indices

https://t.co/w7oNG5KUkJ


The legacy site's CSS is what happens when hundreds of people directly write CSS over many years. Specificity wars, redundancy, a house of cards that can't be fixed. The result is extremely inefficient and error-prone styling that punishes users and developers.

The PWA's CSS is generated on-demand by a JS framework that manages styles and outputs "atomic CSS". The framework can enforce strict constraints and perform optimisations, which is why the CSS is so much smaller and safer. Style conflicts and unbounded CSS growth are avoided.