We hit it off.
A thread on a long term relationship of mine that taught me why the red pill is so valuable in a man’s life.
We hit it off.
Within three weeks, we were talking long term, planning trips, and within a month, we had met each other’s kids.
Red flags all over.
As I had struggled with them most of my life, I had really started to find my stride with them.
Before, I hadn’t noticed this behavior until it was too late, but....
But what I had failed to understand and what I was understanding now was women were different
And in mid December 2018, I called her one morning from my office.
This little nugget was dropped to me by my mutual friends who knew what she had done.
So with this fact, I called her and called off this “relationship” and stopped it before she would have.
The red pill had saved me time, emotion, and heartache because of a woman who hadn’t been honest
Good feelings, regardless of source, takes them to body chemical heights.
And men don’t put on the brakes...
You are a reality check on the chaos of her emotions.
And you are the check on her becoming distant.
Because regardless the reasons, she becomes distant because she’s lost interest
But being aware of this can keep your emotions in check so you can have a clear head about things.
That’s the important part of all of this, maintaining control of the situation and keeping your feels in park.
It taught me the signs to look for, as well as kept me from having a similar experience since.
I can read women much better and I know the signals and signs they show, keeping me in control.
Understand her emotions and what they mean, and for God’s sake watch who you let into your life.
You are important, don’t blow your wad on just any girl, especially if you’re looking for your “Ride or Die.”
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— r a y a \U0001f319 (@lcvelylilith) February 20, 2020
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