When we do something wrong, big or small, then we should be apologising to you and asking for you to forgive and forget what we have done! 😬
You can decide how we apologise!
16 Experiences You Should Give Your Lover As Her Dominant 😈⛓
These experiences will help to cement the 2 of you into a dominant/submissive relationship, so make sure you tick them off! 😎
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Let's begin...
When we do something wrong, big or small, then we should be apologising to you and asking for you to forgive and forget what we have done! 😬
You can decide how we apologise!
Denying us things in a playful way can really polarise the masculine-feminine energy ☯️
Try denying us things that we REALLY want! 🙃
Things both in and out of the bedroom!
It's polite of us but more importantly it creates more polarity!! (I know I use that word a lot 😅)
It doesn't matter if you're rope skills are pretty or if it's a mess... at least in the beginning! 😈
Rope, straps, cable ties etc. They are all good.
When you give us commands, make sure we nod too.
Words + Actions = Intensity
Try and remove as many worries about money, security, health and our future as possible, then we don't have to waste energy worrying! 😅
This is hard to find!!!
You're able to listen to our hints and then take us through all of our crazy ideas.
This is on top of already doing whatever YOU want to do! 😎
This one might sound really obvious but I think it's important after you've really "degraded" us 😈
Super dark to super light emotions! 😍
If your lover has never been choked, she may wonder why people even enjoy it 🧐
But she will quickly realise after you start! 🤤
Not with words and compliments, but with your eagerness and devilish looking eyes! 😈
Make us feel like your prized property! 😏
Slowly increase our pain tolerance during sex and tell us to enjoy the pain because that's as much as we're going to get! 😅😋
We feel more comfortable when you seem to be better than us at most things!
Including sex! 🤠
Then being physically beneath you also helps!
Maybe you need to travel for work, family or something else... it gives us a chance to truly appreciate you!
The more we miss you, the stronger our bond will be! 🥰
Don't bribe your lover with rewards!
Reward her spontaneously! 😍
Help us see things that we were blind to before we met!
This has been so important for me, I'm a totally different person because of my man! 😃
When you believe something strongly enough, it will rub off on us! ✨
More from Life
1/ Here’s a list of conversational frameworks I’ve picked up that have been helpful.
Please add your own.
2/ The Magic Question: "What would need to be true for you
3/ On evaluating where someone’s head is at regarding a topic they are being wishy-washy about or delaying.
“Gun to the head—what would you decide now?”
“Fast forward 6 months after your sabbatical--how would you decide: what criteria is most important to you?”
4/ Other Q’s re: decisions:
“Putting aside a list of pros/cons, what’s the *one* reason you’re doing this?” “Why is that the most important reason?”
“What’s end-game here?”
“What does success look like in a world where you pick that path?”
5/ When listening, after empathizing, and wanting to help them make their own decisions without imposing your world view:
“What would the best version of yourself do”?
Please add your own.
2/ The Magic Question: "What would need to be true for you
1/\u201cWhat would need to be true for you to\u2026.X\u201d
— Erik Torenberg (@eriktorenberg) December 4, 2018
Why is this the most powerful question you can ask when attempting to reach an agreement with another human being or organization?
A thread, co-written by @deanmbrody: https://t.co/Yo6jHbSit9
3/ On evaluating where someone’s head is at regarding a topic they are being wishy-washy about or delaying.
“Gun to the head—what would you decide now?”
“Fast forward 6 months after your sabbatical--how would you decide: what criteria is most important to you?”
4/ Other Q’s re: decisions:
“Putting aside a list of pros/cons, what’s the *one* reason you’re doing this?” “Why is that the most important reason?”
“What’s end-game here?”
“What does success look like in a world where you pick that path?”
5/ When listening, after empathizing, and wanting to help them make their own decisions without imposing your world view:
“What would the best version of yourself do”?
