2. There are topics and areas of life I know absolutely nothing about, but the more I read, the less ignorant I become.
30 things I learnt about life, career, and relationships before turning 30.
2. There are topics and areas of life I know absolutely nothing about, but the more I read, the less ignorant I become.
7. Comparison is indeed a thief of job. It is not healthy and you are better off without it.
10. Prayer actually make things happen. Although it is never instant, it is also never late.
13. Thank you. I am Sorry. Please. These words are simple, yet powerful.
15. As a man, it is totally okay to cry. Releasing emotions do help.
17. Family love is pure. It's an elixir needed in the chaos of life.
19. You drive your own destiny. God dictates the ETA.
21. It is good to be true to everyone. Being true to yourself, however, is number one. You lose yourself when you lie to yourself.
26. Being emotionally intelligent is zen.
28b. Giving is rewarding especially when done without expecting a return. Uncommunicated expectations bring disappointment.
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Like company moats, your personal moat should be a competitive advantage that is not only durable—it should also compound over time.
Characteristics of a personal moat below:
I'm increasingly interested in the idea of "personal moats" in the context of careers.
— Erik Torenberg (@eriktorenberg) November 22, 2018
Moats should be:
- Hard to learn and hard to do (but perhaps easier for you)
- Skills that are rare and valuable
- Legible
- Compounding over time
- Unique to your own talents & interests https://t.co/bB3k1YcH5b
2/ Like a company moat, you want to build career capital while you sleep.
As Andrew Chen noted:
People talk about \u201cpassive income\u201d a lot but not about \u201cpassive social capital\u201d or \u201cpassive networking\u201d or \u201cpassive knowledge gaining\u201d but that\u2019s what you can architect if you have a thing and it grows over time without intensive constant effort to sustain it
— Andrew Chen (@andrewchen) November 22, 2018
3/ You don’t want to build a competitive advantage that is fleeting or that will get commoditized
Things that might get commoditized over time (some longer than
Things that look like moats but likely aren\u2019t or may fade:
— Erik Torenberg (@eriktorenberg) November 22, 2018
- Proprietary networks
- Being something other than one of the best at any tournament style-game
- Many "awards"
- Twitter followers or general reach without "respect"
- Anything that depends on information asymmetry https://t.co/abjxesVIh9
4/ Before the arrival of recorded music, what used to be scarce was the actual music itself — required an in-person artist.
After recorded music, the music itself became abundant and what became scarce was curation, distribution, and self space.
5/ Similarly, in careers, what used to be (more) scarce were things like ideas, money, and exclusive relationships.
In the internet economy, what has become scarce are things like specific knowledge, rare & valuable skills, and great reputations.