Depression in marriages happens to both men & women. While they r many abusive men, women perpetrators r common. Women r controlling, dictate & wear pants in marriages. Some even using love portions to take away husband's freewill r common. Women think it's normal to dominate men

Women groups r full of women who confess on doing strange things to control husbands. If you go to Sekuru Banda's shrine u see many young women looking for ways to attract & keep men under their control. Most often wn these things expire all hell breaks loose. Women play victims
Pastors have destroy families-encourage women to lead husbands &some even forcing them to attend church. Men's God given role is to lead &wife must submit unconditionally.That means husband becomes 1st ministry &even if he is unsaved Bible says to put yourself under his authority
This means as a wife u must choose wisely & don't rush to settle with an unbeliever as God expects u to submit to him "as you do to the Lord". A controlled man is difficult to manage, they rebel &may do bad things just to prove to you that your control has limits.Respect freewill
Love, respect & forgiveness are important.Marriages are under strong spiritual warfare but most of attack happens through character, emotions, personality & lack of self restraint. That's why it's important to pray, reflect &manage these to be able to minimize spiritual attacks.
When u visit a spiritualist for help u open yourself, spouse &family to spirits from that shrine u visit. In fact, spiritualists assign spirits to go with portions that they gave u meaning portion has spirits that will be controlling your spouse making sure s/he does what u want.
Abuse of men is more common &like women there r many men who suffer from emotional & physical abuse from their wives.While its common for women to open up &get support men suffer in silence.Some women get depressed from failure of husband to tolerate abuse.Not all women r victims
Don't be deceived by physical appearances &crocodile tears used to manipulate people.Some wives may be small but spiritually wicked & man will be so controlled. Wn they break the control they are ruthless. Not all men are abusers & not all women r innocent victims. Some r wicked
There r women who wrecked marriages to get the husband for money &status.They r highly motivated & ruthless wn displacing the other woman & use voodoo to help them. Most women have changed & r more aggressive than men.Spiritually balance,guard yourself &family from such parasites

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Rig Ved 1.36.7

To do a Namaskaar or bow before someone means that you are humble or without pride and ego. This means that we politely bow before you since you are better than me. Pranipaat(प्राणीपात) also means the same that we respect you without any vanity.

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Surrendering False pride is Namaskaar. Even in devotion or bhakti we say the same thing. We want to convey to Ishwar that we have nothing to offer but we leave all our pride and offer you ourselves without any pride in our body. You destroy all our evil karma.

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We bow before you so that you assimilate us and make us that capable. Destruction of our evils and surrender is Namaskaar. Therefore we pray same thing before and after any big rituals.

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तं घे॑मि॒त्था न॑म॒स्विन॒ उप॑ स्व॒राज॑मासते ।
होत्रा॑भिर॒ग्निं मनु॑षः॒ समिं॑धते तिति॒र्वांसो॒ अति॒ स्रिधः॑॥

Translation :

नमस्विनः - To bow.

स्वराजम् - Self illuminating.

तम् - His.

घ ईम् - Yours.

इत्था - This way.

उप - Upaasana.

आसते - To do.

स्त्रिधः - For enemies.

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अति तितिर्वांसः - To defeat fast.

मनुषः - Yajman.

होत्राभिः - In seven numbers.

अग्निम् - Agnidev.

समिन्धते - Illuminated on all sides.

Explanation : Yajmans bow(do Namaskaar) before self illuminating Agnidev by making the offerings of Havi.

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