My sister's were "academic witches", their brain opened very early whilst for me, I was destined to be the "black sheep" of the family...it was quite bad!
At a point no one was expecting anything from me, you could say they literally gave up on me...
But Ogaranya never stopped!
Man kept sending me to the very best schools available, spending huge sums of money, I was his first born son, his "Okpara"
But all I gave him I return was failure upon failure but he didn't give up, he paid through his teeth to send me to Ghana for my senior secondary education
The morning I was to leave, he called me and warned me "If you disgrace me in Ghana, don't bother coming back" with a straight face
Later he hugged and told me "Oga adirigi na nma nwa'm" meaning "It shall be well with you my son" 😭
My first few weeks in Ghana changed my life..
First of all I was openly laughed at in class for my way of speaking, it was humiliating but it didn't end there...
One night I woke up and found out that I was the only one sleeping in my room, my mates were reading in class...Omoh
That night...i sat up and took a decision!!!
A decision to do better, to be better for myself and to make Ogaranya my father proud.
I called my father and told him I needed extra classes and more books, my man thought I wanted to scam him but he still paid for everything.
I was having extra classes, I was reading like mad
I left Ghana as the BEST GRADUATING SCIENCE STUDENT, at a point my parents were doubting my results whenever I sent them home.
Like this can't be Nelsons result, that boy looked practically irredeemable now..."HOW COME!!!"
My mum asked me when I came back..."Nma what happened?"
The answer is simple, I took a decision to change my life because the truth is no one else would...if you're waiting for someone else, you will grow old!
It's your responsibility, It's your life, you've got to save yourself!!!
It's not easy but it's possible and it's WORTH IT!
Good things don't come easy, so stand up, stop procrastinating, stop being lazy and get to work fam...
NEVER GIVE UP ON YOURSELF and when you see people that believe in you, stick close to them, they will help you...
And watch your circle, if they ain't motivating you...Mueeeve
An igbo proverb says "Anaghi eji ututu ama njor ahia" meaning "One should not use the morning hours to predict a bad market"
January was bad doesn't mean 2021 would be bad
That you had a bad beginning doesn't mean you would end bad
STOP BEING IN A HASTE TO WRITE YOURSELF OFF
I will end this thread on this note...
"Everything will be okay at the end, if its not okay then it's not the end yet...KEEP WORKING!!!"
HAPPY NEW MONTH
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