Today I hired a virtual personal assistant to go through my emails and pay lingering bills and follow up on various invoices and make my doctors appointments and mail several things and guys

why have i not been doing this the whole time it took her three hours and it was $70.

this is the life hack i did not know i needed as an absolutely drowning and burnt out millennial who cannot figure out how to just open an envelope and pay a bill because it drains me of my will to live
I have finished my day and i am completely caught up, signed up for paperless and recurring billing, have mailed a dozen thank you cards I wrote and just ... never took to the post office, and gathered my tax information to submit.

like, why didn't anyone tell me.
you can find bonded, experienced people who do this for a living on https://t.co/4OpHGkl8Nq and they charge between 15 and 25 dollars an hour. I have canceled a variety of online memberships I don't use enough so that I can pay her to come back every other week. I am thrilled.
Props to my mother who looked at my "here's the box I put shit I can't bare to deal with right now" box and said "Have you considered hiring a personal assistant? They are cheaper than you think."

BLEW MY GD MIND.
I DONT NEED THIS MASSAGE MEMBERSHIP WHAT I NEED IS A PERSONAL ASSISTANT WHO COSTS EXACTLY THE SAME AS A MASSAGE AND PROVIDES FAR MORE RELIEF.
like guys i forwarded her an email to something i couldn't figure out how to unsubscribe from and had been paying $15 a month for and she figured it out and essentially paid for herself in 20 minutes.

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