By understanding a persons level of emotional maturity, we can choose how we engage with them.

HERE’S 5 CORE SIGNS OF EMOTIONAL IMMATURITY 🧵:

1. Highly Defensive: unable to listen to another persons thoughts or feelings without becoming defensive.

Ex: “oh I guess I’m just a terrible person!”
2. Dismissive of Feelings: invalidates, denies, or tries to change the ways person feels in attempt to make themselves more comfortable

Ex: “you’re so sensitive.” “guess you can’t take a joke” “why did you take it that way?”
3. Everything centers around their emotions: everything is brought back to themselves and how they feel father than validating or being curious about the other persons inner world.

Ex: You share how you feel & the response is: “oh well imagine how I FEEL!”
4. Black and White Thinking: attempts to fine safety by having inflexible ideas, opinions, and belief. Has little/no tolerance of other people’s opinions.

Ex: “that’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard”
5. Take Everything Personally: feels personally attacked easily. Unable to put their ego aside to have a vulnerable emotional connection because of a fragile sense of self.

Ex: “maybe life would be easier for you if I wasn’t around!”

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APIs in general are so powerful.

Best 5 public APIs you can use to build your next project:

1. Number Verification API

A RESTful JSON API for national and international phone number validation.

🔗
https://t.co/fzBmCMFdIj


2. OpenAI API

ChatGPT is an outstanding tool. Build your own API applications with OpenAI API.

🔗 https://t.co/TVnTciMpML


3. Currency Data API

Currency Data API provides a simple REST API with real-time and historical exchange rates for 168 world currencies

🔗 https://t.co/TRj35IUUec


4. Weather API

Real-Time & historical world weather data API.

Retrieve instant, accurate weather information for
any location in the world in lightweight JSON format.

🔗 https://t.co/DCY8kXqVIK

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