A friend asked what lessons I'd learned after spending two years off Twitter & away from politics.

Here are a few from my older, wiser, post-covid self.

These are just one guy's take-aways after some observing and soul-searching. Take them as you will.

1. Most people are nice. And normal. Most have common sense. There may not be a political constituency for the common sense middle, but this is where most people are. Twitter algos warp us so bad we lose sight of this. Sometimes we need to leave our echo chambers to see this.
2. No, the sky isn't falling. Returning to Twitter, I am struck by how much catastrophizing there is on all sides. From AMERICAN DEMOCRACY IS UNDER ATTACK to WOKE GLOBALISTS ARE TAKING OVER THE WORLD. I get it, the drama works. It creates urgency. But it is usually overstated.
The problem with catastrophizing is that it creates a sort of wartime logic. "We are in a WAR for ___ and you better pick a side and win by any means necessary." I see this logic a lot on this hellsite & in our politics. It often leads to moral compromise & bad decisions.
3. Social media controls us more than we realize. I used to think Twitter enhanced my independent critical thinking. Now I view it as a cesspool of weird social & psychic pressures. It activates this performative, dopamine-driven part of our brains. Staying away can be freeing.
Any wonder social media is creating a generation of mentally disturbed young people? Today's social media algos are unanchored from any sense of public good. This is having all kinds of effects on our psyches & societies.

It doesn't have to be this way. https://t.co/A3frl54Xq9
4. We live in an influencer-driven culture. But being an influencer is dangerous. It exposes you to harassment & bad-faith actors. It encourages & rewards your worst traits. It may turn you into an addict, narcissist, or kook. You can be led off a cliff by your own audience.
Being an influencer & staying sane takes extreme fortitude. I admire those who can do it.

As a rule, I'd advise against it. Do not trade your soul for clicks.
5. Your journey, including your mistakes, can help others. It takes a while to own our stories, but we all have them. Think about the last two years under Covid. What was your experience it? How did it change you? I don't know anyone whose life didn't change.
6. If you've been through some stuff, remember there's only one member of your audience you can't change: yourself. Make sure you like the guy in the mirror. Start there, with the inside job. Ignore the external. Forgive yourself & get on track from within. The rest will follow.
7. Love & kindness matter. I know this sounds all yoga-Unitarian, but you can really feel the source of people's energy. "Is this coming from a good or a bad place?" is a question to ask. This doesn't mean being rolling over. Just make sure your edge is coming from a good place.
8. Guardrails are important. Moral, legal, Constitutional. It's easy to feel constrained by them when we are in the race. But remember the point of guardrails: they are there to keep us safe.
9. The political climate is so divisive, you know what's contrarian? Consensus-building. Lol. But seriously, when you hear someone's story of why they believe what they do and how they arrived there, it is hard to hate them. Political testimonies are powerful.
It's ok to acknowledge someone is a good person despite holding dramatically different views.

I remember crossing paths with an "annoying" leftwing influencer at a coffee shop several years ago. He smiled at my kid. I've viewed him differently ever since. https://t.co/1ThKDSRDkl
10. There's nothing more meaningful than building a family, creating life, raising kids. We may have different views about what forms this should take, but isn't there something universal here? Obviously, you can live a good life without having kids - but man, it is meaningful.
Parenting small children under Covid was rough. I remember recognizing the "exhausted parent" look on others at the time. Most parents, I realized, are just trying to hold it together. (Totally not projecting or anything, ha)

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कुंडली में 12 भाव होते हैं। कैसे ज्योतिष द्वारा रोग के आंकलन करते समय कुंडली के विभिन्न भावों से गणना करते हैं आज इस पर चर्चा करेंगे।
कुण्डली को कालपुरुष की संज्ञा देकर इसमें शरीर के अंगों को स्थापित कर उनसे रोग, रोगेश, रोग को बढ़ाने घटाने वाले ग्रह


रोग की स्थिति में उत्प्रेरक का कार्य करने वाले ग्रह, आयुर्वेदिक/ऐलोपैथी/होमियोपैथी में से कौन कारगर होगा इसका आँकलन, रक्त विकार, रक्त और आपरेशन की स्थिति, कौन सा आंतरिक या बाहरी अंग प्रभावित होगा इत्यादि गणना करने में कुंडली का प्रयोग किया जाता है।


मेडिकल ज्योतिष में आज के समय में Dr. K. S. Charak का नाम निर्विवाद रूप से प्रथम स्थान रखता है। उनकी लिखी कई पुस्तकें आज इस क्षेत्र में नए ज्योतिषों का मार्गदर्शन कर रही हैं।
प्रथम भाव -
इस भाव से हम व्यक्ति की रोगप्रतिरोधक क्षमता, सिर, मष्तिस्क का विचार करते हैं।


द्वितीय भाव-
दाहिना नेत्र, मुख, वाणी, नाक, गर्दन व गले के ऊपरी भाग का विचार होता है।
तृतीय भाव-
अस्थि, गला,कान, हाथ, कंधे व छाती के आंतरिक अंगों का शुरुआती भाग इत्यादि।

चतुर्थ भाव- छाती व इसके आंतरिक अंग, जातक की मानसिक स्थिति/प्रकृति, स्तन आदि की गणना की जाती है


पंचम भाव-
जातक की बुद्धि व उसकी तीव्रता,पीठ, पसलियां,पेट, हृदय की स्थिति आंकलन में प्रयोग होता है।

षष्ठ भाव-
रोग भाव कहा जाता है। कुंडली मे इसके तत्कालिक भाव स्वामी, कालपुरुष कुंडली के स्वामी, दृष्टि संबंध, रोगेश की स्थिति, रोगेश के नक्षत्र औऱ रोगेश व भाव की डिग्री इत्यादि।

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Russia hasn't been a willing partner in this treaty for almost 3 decades. We should have ended the pretense long ago.

Naturally, Rand Paul is telling anyone who will listen to him that Trump is making a HUGE MISTAKE here.


Rand is just like his dad, Ron. 100% isolationist.

They've never grasped that 100% isolationist is not 'America First' when you examine it. It really means 'America Alone'.

The consistent grousing of pursuing military alliances with allies - like Trump is doing now with Saudi Arabia.

So of course Rand has also spent the last 2 days loudly calling for Trump to kill the arms deal with Saudi Arabia and end our alliance with them.

What Obama was engineering with his foreign policy was de facto isolationism: pull all the troops out of the ME, abandon the region to Iranian control as a client state of Russia.

Obama wasn't building an alliance with Iran; he was facilitating abandoning the ME to Iran.

Obama wouldn't even leave behind a token security force, so of course what happened was the rise of ISIS. He also pumped billions of dollars into the Iranian coffers, which the Mullah's used to fund destabilizing activity [wars/terrorism] & criminal enterprises all over the globe