16 Experiences You Should Give Your Lover As Her Dominant 😈⛓

These experiences will help to cement the 2 of you into a dominant/submissive relationship, so make sure you tick them off! 😎

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Let's begin...

1. Begging you for forgiveness 🧎‍♀️

When we do something wrong, big or small, then we should be apologising to you and asking for you to forgive and forget what we have done! 😬

You can decide how we apologise!
2. Begging for your attention 🙏

Denying us things in a playful way can really polarise the masculine-feminine energy ☯️

Try denying us things that we REALLY want! 🙃
3. Asking you for permission to do things 🧐

Things both in and out of the bedroom!

It's polite of us but more importantly it creates more polarity!! (I know I use that word a lot 😅)
4. Being restrained with ropes ⛓

It doesn't matter if you're rope skills are pretty or if it's a mess... at least in the beginning! 😈

Rope, straps, cable ties etc. They are all good.
5. Have us nod for you more 😇

When you give us commands, make sure we nod too.

Words + Actions = Intensity
6. Allow us to feel 100000% safe around you 🥰

Try and remove as many worries about money, security, health and our future as possible, then we don't have to waste energy worrying! 😅

This is hard to find!!!
7. Listening to OUR fantasies and taking us through them in your own time ☺

You're able to listen to our hints and then take us through all of our crazy ideas.

This is on top of already doing whatever YOU want to do! 😎
8. Cuddles right after super crazy sex 🤗

This one might sound really obvious but I think it's important after you've really "degraded" us 😈

Super dark to super light emotions! 😍
9. Choking us to show us it's not as bad as we thought 😵

If your lover has never been choked, she may wonder why people even enjoy it 🧐

But she will quickly realise after you start! 🤤
10. Making us feel incredibly beautiful and desired 💃

Not with words and compliments, but with your eagerness and devilish looking eyes! 😈

Make us feel like your prized property! 😏
11. Have us discover what "pleasurable pain" is ⛓

Slowly increase our pain tolerance during sex and tell us to enjoy the pain because that's as much as we're going to get! 😅😋
12. Feeling "beneath" you 😇

We feel more comfortable when you seem to be better than us at most things!

Including sex! 🤠

Then being physically beneath you also helps!
13. The feeling of missing you super badly 😭

Maybe you need to travel for work, family or something else... it gives us a chance to truly appreciate you!

The more we miss you, the stronger our bond will be! 🥰
14. Rewarding us for behaviour you like 🥳

Don't bribe your lover with rewards!

Reward her spontaneously! 😍
15. Transforming our view of the world 😎

Help us see things that we were blind to before we met!

This has been so important for me, I'm a totally different person because of my man! 😃

When you believe something strongly enough, it will rub off on us! ✨
16. Having us use our safeword! 😈

This means that you have found our limits and are slowly pushing them!

It also means you're brave enough to test how far we can go! 💪
These 16 ideas are a good start if you want to take your relationship from poor/average to incredible 😎

Your relationship should be working FOR you and not against you! ☯️

This is the real reason we care about these things... but they are fun too! 🤪

Now please go and try!!

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अस्य श्री गायत्री ध्यान श्लोक:
(gAyatri dhyAna shlOka)
• This shloka to meditate personified form of वेदमाता गायत्री was given by Bhagwaan Brahma to Sage yAgnavalkya (याज्ञवल्क्य).

• 14th shloka of गायत्री कवचम् which is taken from वशिष्ठ संहिता, goes as follows..


• मुक्ता-विद्रुम-हेम-नील धवलच्छायैर्मुखस्त्रीक्षणै:।
muktA vidruma hEma nIla dhavalachhAyaiH mukhaistrlkShaNaiH.

• युक्तामिन्दुकला-निबद्धमुकुटां तत्वार्थवर्णात्मिकाम्॥
yuktAmindukalA nibaddha makutAm tatvArtha varNAtmikam.

• गायत्रीं वरदाभयाङ्कुश कशां शुभ्रं कपालं गदाम्।
gAyatrIm vardAbhayANkusha kashAm shubhram kapAlam gadAm.

• शंखं चक्रमथारविन्दयुगलं हस्तैर्वहन्ती भजै॥
shankham chakramathArvinda yugalam hastairvahantIm bhajE.

This shloka describes the form of वेदमाता गायत्री.

• It says, "She has five faces which shine with the colours of a Pearl 'मुक्ता', Coral 'विद्रुम', Gold 'हेम्', Sapphire 'नील्', & a Diamond 'धवलम्'.

• These five faces are symbolic of the five primordial elements called पञ्चमहाभूत:' which makes up the entire existence.

• These are the elements of SPACE, FIRE, WIND, EARTH & WATER.

• All these five faces shine with three eyes 'त्रिक्षणै:'.