I was speaking with my therapist today about a particular situation and she said, “People despise competence; mediocrity is non-threatening.”

THIS.

LET ME TELL YOU - I’ve been seeing her for two years and it’s been TRANSFORMATIVE. I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. Unravelling toxic behaviours, more awareness about thought + behaviour patterns, clarity of thought, relationships repaired/repairing, validates + calls me out.
I, of course, know this statement rings more true when you’re a woman, especially a woman of colour: I am both and she was talking directly to me. LOL.
The amount of Black folks for whom this resonates, particularly Black women - I SEE YOU AND VALIDATE YOUR BRILLIANCE✨
JUSTICE FOR #BreonnaTaylor AND #JoyceEchaquan!
Here’s the thing abt therapy: You’re told things u already know BUT it’s how it clicks for u in that very moment + allows u think in a new way.

As an educator, see this all the time: I tell a S something, they get it, but later they REALLY get it + it fossilized in the brain.

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1/ Some initial thoughts on personal moats:

Like company moats, your personal moat should be a competitive advantage that is not only durable—it should also compound over time.

Characteristics of a personal moat below:


2/ Like a company moat, you want to build career capital while you sleep.

As Andrew Chen noted:


3/ You don’t want to build a competitive advantage that is fleeting or that will get commoditized

Things that might get commoditized over time (some longer than


4/ Before the arrival of recorded music, what used to be scarce was the actual music itself — required an in-person artist.

After recorded music, the music itself became abundant and what became scarce was curation, distribution, and self space.

5/ Similarly, in careers, what used to be (more) scarce were things like ideas, money, and exclusive relationships.

In the internet economy, what has become scarce are things like specific knowledge, rare & valuable skills, and great reputations.

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The entire discussion around Facebook’s disclosures of what happened in 2016 is very frustrating. No exec stopped any investigations, but there were a lot of heated discussions about what to publish and when.


In the spring and summer of 2016, as reported by the Times, activity we traced to GRU was reported to the FBI. This was the standard model of interaction companies used for nation-state attacks against likely US targeted.

In the Spring of 2017, after a deep dive into the Fake News phenomena, the security team wanted to publish an update that covered what we had learned. At this point, we didn’t have any advertising content or the big IRA cluster, but we did know about the GRU model.

This report when through dozens of edits as different equities were represented. I did not have any meetings with Sheryl on the paper, but I can’t speak to whether she was in the loop with my higher-ups.

In the end, the difficult question of attribution was settled by us pointing to the DNI report instead of saying Russia or GRU directly. In my pre-briefs with members of Congress, I made it clear that we believed this action was GRU.