To make a long story as short as possible:
On Jan 13th, I came home from work to find my 14 yr old unconscious in a pile of vomit. Thought maybe it was the flu or something at first.
I got her into a bath to clean up and
2/15
Y’all... please check on your kids, they might not be okay.
My husband and I had no clue that a major crisis was coming for our 14 year old. She was so good at faking “okay” that we were totally blindsided.
I’m apprehensive about sharing all of this, but other parents
1/15
To make a long story as short as possible:
On Jan 13th, I came home from work to find my 14 yr old unconscious in a pile of vomit. Thought maybe it was the flu or something at first.
I got her into a bath to clean up and
2/15
She had never done anything like that. Ever. She then started babbling about being so lonely and wanting to go to sleep and not wake up.
3/15
We took her to the ER for alcohol poisoning and told the triage nurse what she’d been drunkenly mumbling about.
It took almost 24 hours to get her BAL back to normal, then she was transferred to a psychiatric hospital.
4/15
They started her on two medications for depression, anxiety, and sleep. She seems to be feeling a bit better since coming home, and now knows that she needs to talk
5/15
Now a part of this has been about the isolation due to this covid shit, but another big part has been her anxiety due to being bisexual.
6/15
After all that has happened, I felt that I HAD to tell
7/15
When I told her the family now knows and that they told me they love her anyway, the look on her face and change in posture was like
8/15
9/15
Knowing just how desperately depressed our daughter has been, we are trying our damndest to make her see that we love and support her.
She needs your prayers.
10/15
We are scared. Unbelievably overwhelmed.
11/15
It’s going to take time for her to get through this crisis, to get through bad days using new coping skills she learned in the hospital and in therapy.
12/15
And DO love and support them no matter what. Spend time with them if you haven’t been. Hug them if you haven’t been.
13/15
My kid was apparently going through a mental hell because of my other family’s vocal disapproval of homosexuality.
14/15
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1/ Here’s a list of conversational frameworks I’ve picked up that have been helpful.
Please add your own.
2/ The Magic Question: "What would need to be true for you
3/ On evaluating where someone’s head is at regarding a topic they are being wishy-washy about or delaying.
“Gun to the head—what would you decide now?”
“Fast forward 6 months after your sabbatical--how would you decide: what criteria is most important to you?”
4/ Other Q’s re: decisions:
“Putting aside a list of pros/cons, what’s the *one* reason you’re doing this?” “Why is that the most important reason?”
“What’s end-game here?”
“What does success look like in a world where you pick that path?”
5/ When listening, after empathizing, and wanting to help them make their own decisions without imposing your world view:
“What would the best version of yourself do”?
Please add your own.
2/ The Magic Question: "What would need to be true for you
1/\u201cWhat would need to be true for you to\u2026.X\u201d
— Erik Torenberg (@eriktorenberg) December 4, 2018
Why is this the most powerful question you can ask when attempting to reach an agreement with another human being or organization?
A thread, co-written by @deanmbrody: https://t.co/Yo6jHbSit9
3/ On evaluating where someone’s head is at regarding a topic they are being wishy-washy about or delaying.
“Gun to the head—what would you decide now?”
“Fast forward 6 months after your sabbatical--how would you decide: what criteria is most important to you?”
4/ Other Q’s re: decisions:
“Putting aside a list of pros/cons, what’s the *one* reason you’re doing this?” “Why is that the most important reason?”
“What’s end-game here?”
“What does success look like in a world where you pick that path?”
5/ When listening, after empathizing, and wanting to help them make their own decisions without imposing your world view:
“What would the best version of yourself do”?
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