A major feature associated with 'manhood' is EGO & nothing shatters that ego more than a seeming inability to sexually satisfy a woman. Premature ejaculation(PE) is a common issue in men, with 1 in 3 men experiencing it at some point in their lives.

Lets talk PE shall we?

PE is when you have an orgasm before intercourse/less than A MINUTE after you start.The question that follows this is;HOW LONG SHOULD SEX LAST FOR BEFORE A MAN RELEASES?Averagely,5-7mins.
There are reasons (good/bad) that will make a man spend less/more time before ejaculation.
If a 'quick release' happens once in a while, there's nothing to worry about but if it happens frequently,then you might need to seek help.

The exact CAUSE of PE isn't known, it is believed to be majorly PSYCHOLOGICAL but there are also biological factors involved.
Psychological factors

-STRESS
-Early sexual experience
-Sexual abuse
-Poor body image
-Depression
-Anxiety about sexual performance
-Guilty feelings that makes you rush through sexual encounters
-Relationship problems
-Negative feelings about the idea of sex(sexual repression)
Biological factors
-Erectile Dysfunction
-Men who have low levels of the chemical, SEROTONIN in their brains tend to take a shorter time to ejaculate.
-Abnormal hormone levels
-Inflammation & infection of the prostate/urethra
-Inherited traits

The main symptom of PE is inability
to delay ejaculation for more than 1minute after penetration.However,the problem might occur in all sexual situations,even during masturbation.

There are men who have PE all the time(Primary PE) & men who initially didn't have PE & suddenly started having issues(Secondary PE)
IMPORTANT!
Many men feel that they have symptoms of PE, but the symptoms don't meet the diagnostic criteria for PE. Instead these men might have natural variable PE, which includes periods of rapid ejaculation as well as periods of normal ejaculation.

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2/ First, “X” could be lots of things. Examples: What would need to be true for you to

- “Feel it's in our best interest for me to be CMO"
- “Feel that we’re in a good place as a company”
- “Feel that we’re on the same page”
- “Feel that we both got what we wanted from this deal

3/ Normally, we aren’t that direct. Example from startup/VC land:

Founders leave VC meetings thinking that every VC will invest, but they rarely do.

Worse over, the founders don’t know what they need to do in order to be fundable.

4/ So why should you ask the magic Q?

To get clarity.

You want to know where you stand, and what it takes to get what you want in a way that also gets them what they want.

It also holds them (mentally) accountable once the thing they need becomes true.

5/ Staying in the context of soliciting investors, the question is “what would need to be true for you to want to invest (or partner with us on this journey, etc)?”

Multiple responses to this question are likely to deliver a positive result.

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