A thread on a long term relationship of mine that taught me…

Labor Day 2018. Was at a friends house at a cookout when I noticed a mutual friend of ours, who had arrived late, was flirting with me. She was attractive, about 3 years younger than me, and had a daughter approximately the same age as my youngest.

We hit it off.

After asking her out to breakfast, we started to date seriously. But the issue I was noticing is it was going REALLY fast.

Within three weeks, we were talking long term, planning trips, and within a month, we had met each other’s kids.

Red flags all over.

This was around the time I started being the Red Pill Dad, and I had spent the past spring and summer working on understanding the red pill and women in general.

As I had struggled with them most of my life, I had really started to find my stride with them.

So as I watch this romance blossom WAY too fast, I started to pull back a look from a distance on what was going on. And after a hot three months, she, out of the blue, started to get distant.

Before, I hadn’t noticed this behavior until it was too late, but....

I knew something was up. Before I had gotten desperate when a woman I was seeing was acting like this, declaring my love and what not to try to get her to stop the distant behavior.

But what I had failed to understand and what I was understanding now was women were different

When I asked about her distance, she would always chalk it up to being busy, stressed about something, etc, but I knew.

And in mid December 2018, I called her one morning from my office.

What she hadn’t told me that I now knew was that that Labor Day, she had just broken up with her boyfriend of 2 years, yes, not 2 hours before she met me.

This little nugget was dropped to me by my mutual friends who knew what she had done.

So I knew that her distance was the fact that she was talking to her ex.

So with this fact, I called her and called off this “relationship” and stopped it before she would have.

The red pill had saved me time, emotion, and heartache because of a woman who hadn’t been honest

As I’ve learned through my now many interactions with women, is that they get swept up by exciting emotions very quickly, and try to take you with them.

Good feelings, regardless of source, takes them to body chemical heights.

And men don’t put on the brakes...

This is why you need the pill, and need to be the clear head in any interaction or relationship.

You are a reality check on the chaos of her emotions.

And you are the check on her becoming distant.

Because regardless the reasons, she becomes distant because she’s lost interest

And most of the time, it’s because of another dude.

But being aware of this can keep your emotions in check so you can have a clear head about things.

That’s the important part of all of this, maintaining control of the situation and keeping your feels in park.

So I learned a valuable lesson about women and how they are.

It taught me the signs to look for, as well as kept me from having a similar experience since.

I can read women much better and I know the signals and signs they show, keeping me in control.

The lesson? Keep your heads about you fellas.

Understand her emotions and what they mean, and for God’s sake watch who you let into your life.

You are important, don’t blow your wad on just any girl, especially if you’re looking for your “Ride or Die.”

Blog posts I’ve done on the subject:

https://t.co/aXjfCjuHFo

https://t.co/Nws5sNKKL7

A thread on a long term relationship of mine that taught me why the red pill is so valuable in a man’s life.

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