Do they need you more than you need them?
Answering this question honestly, can almost always predict the outcome
(Sales, Dates, Friendships...anything)
Are you inviting them to your kingdom
Or are you inviting yourself into their kingdom?
Be like the lighthouse
Firm & grounded
In the country (life) you’ve built
You shine so bright those who see the lighthouse are attracted to come
Getting out of the sea into certainty
To the promise land, where their needs & desires are met
Fill your own cup
Build your country
Then you need nothing
Needing nothing attracts everything
Now when you invite people to your kingdom
it is genuinely more needed/desired by them
Because you live there, you already have it & invite them to share in it
But if it is you who is lost at sea
You need it more than they do
When you port they will check your passport
Make you jump through hoops, qualify yourself, prove yourself, chase
Build your kingdom & you’ll never need to chase again
You’ll already have what others chase
Less you need the more you have
More you have the more you give
More you give the more you receive
When you are lost at sea you have nothing to give
So you must always chase for entry into other people’s reality & often get rejected
Needing approval & access to that reality
It’s a uneasy feeling
Your emotional well-being is in the hands of others reactions to you
A limiting & suffocating feeling
Ignore other kingdoms for now
Drive back home. You may not like what you see
🦋 Nurture your garden & the butterfly will come
Do not chase the butterfly
Build your kingdom both internally (mindsets, frame, beliefs, state)
And externally (reflections of your state/beliefs/mindsets)
- income, hobbies, relationships, social circle, etc
🏰 Seek first the kingdom & all your other desires shall be added on to you
Thank you for reading
Cheers,
- Yous