🔶️What am I really scared of?
💠Have I done anything lately worth remembering?
🔶️What matters most in my life?
💠What do I need to change about myself?
🔶️What am I doing about the things that matter most in my life?
It's okay to pause and ask yourself WHAT
“Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.”
― Aristotle
💠What worries me most about the future?
🔶️What matters most in my life?
🔶️What am I really scared of?
💠Have I done anything lately worth remembering?
🔶️What matters most in my life?
💠What do I need to change about myself?
🔶️What am I doing about the things that matter most in my life?
🔶️In what ways do I show love for myself?
💠What are the top 10 things that bring a smile to my face?
🔶️What does a “happy life” look like in my mind?
💠What am I doing to increase my happiness?
💠What am I doing on a day to day basis to progress towards my ultimate goal in life?
🔶️What do I hope to achieve in life?
💠What fuels me more: reward or fear of punishment?
🔶️What excites me enough to keep me focused?
🔶️What helped me regain my motivation in the past when I lost it?
💠What does a “happy life” look like in my mind?
🔶️What lessons did I learn from the last major mistake I made in my work, relationship, finance?
🔶️What activities make me feel productive, engaged, and deeply content?
💠What am I doing on a day to day basis to progress towards my ultimate goal in life?
💠What are my boundaries in a friendship?
🔶️What are the unfulfilling friendships that are draining my energy and happiness? And I must let go.
🔶️What are the 10 most important qualities I look for in a friend?
💠What’s the biggest obstacle standing between me and a health goal?
🔶️What am I doing to reduce and prevent stress?
🔶️What are 10 healthy habits I like to develop in the next 6 months - 2 years?
💠What words do I use the most often and how do they reflect me as a person?
💠In what ways have I grown as a person in the last year?
🔶️What words do I use the most often and how do they reflect me as a person?
💠Do I enjoy learning? If so, what am I doing to ensure that I keep learning?
💠What are the 5 most important things I look for in a relationship in my current stage in life?
💠What do I think will be the 5 most important things I look for in a relationship 5years from now? Are they the same to the answers from the question above?
🔶️What are the “dealbreakers” in a relationship for me?
🔶️What skills do I think I need in order to have a successful relationship?
💠What impact did my parents’ relationship have on my view of relationship and marriage?
💠What qualities do I value the most in a partner, and why are they important?
🔶️What are the top 5 lessons I learned from my past relationships?
💠What’s my fighting style and how does that impact my relationship?
💠What traits of a good leader do I exhibit?
🔶️What traits of leadership do I need to work on?
💠What style(s) of leadership do I prefer and what ways can I improve on it?
💠What are the biggest things you’ve learned in life to date?
🔶️What would you do today if there is no more tomorrow?
💠What is your ideal self? What does it mean to be your highest self?
💠What do you represent?
🔶️What do you want to embody?
💠What are you most grateful for in life?
🔶️What are the achievements you are most proud of?
💠What are you passionate about?
🔶️What are the most important things to you in life?
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"I lied about my basic beliefs in order to keep a prestigious job. Now that it will be zero-cost to me, I have a few things to say."
We know that elite institutions like the one Flier was in (partial) charge of rely on irrelevant status markers like private school education, whiteness, legacy, and ability to charm an old white guy at an interview.
Harvard's discriminatory policies are becoming increasingly well known, across the political spectrum (see, e.g., the recent lawsuit on discrimination against East Asian applications.)
It's refreshing to hear a senior administrator admits to personally opposing policies that attempt to remedy these basic flaws. These are flaws that harm his institution's ability to do cutting-edge research and to serve the public.
Harvard is being eclipsed by institutions that have different ideas about how to run a 21st Century institution. Stanford, for one; the UC system; the "public Ivys".
As a dean of a major academic institution, I could not have said this. But I will now. Requiring such statements in applications for appointments and promotions is an affront to academic freedom, and diminishes the true value of diversity, equity of inclusion by trivializing it. https://t.co/NfcI5VLODi
— Jeffrey Flier (@jflier) November 10, 2018
We know that elite institutions like the one Flier was in (partial) charge of rely on irrelevant status markers like private school education, whiteness, legacy, and ability to charm an old white guy at an interview.
Harvard's discriminatory policies are becoming increasingly well known, across the political spectrum (see, e.g., the recent lawsuit on discrimination against East Asian applications.)
It's refreshing to hear a senior administrator admits to personally opposing policies that attempt to remedy these basic flaws. These are flaws that harm his institution's ability to do cutting-edge research and to serve the public.
Harvard is being eclipsed by institutions that have different ideas about how to run a 21st Century institution. Stanford, for one; the UC system; the "public Ivys".
