As the world becomes increasingly grumpy, the courteous gentleman has the opportunity not only to make a difference in the lives of others, but also to distinguish himself.

Here are some thoughts (notes-to-self, really) on being that kind of man.

On greeting others with enthusiasm, like you're actually happy to see them--

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On treating your conversations like they matter--

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On kindness towards the overlooked--

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On learning names, especially of the overlooked--

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On avoiding defensiveness--

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On accepting compliments--

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On saying thank you the best way--

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On never dismissing others--

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On embracing small talk--

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On not overstaying your welcome--

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And, of course, your courtesy becomes all the more potent when you do it from a position of strength.

You are not nice, not domesticated, not a pushover hiding weakness behind manners--you are a potentially dangerous man who chooses kindness and warmth.

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