It’s popular to read advice from highly successful people.
Their advice may be good for THEIR situation, but does it generalize to other circumstances?
Here’s my attempt to distill repeated advice from MANY highly successful people across many distinct circumstances:
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1. You won’t automatically be happy when you hit your goals.
Achieving goals breeds new ones.
A terrible situation creates misery, but a good situation doesn’t imply happiness.
Happiness takes inner work, gratitude for what’s had.
The good life’s a journey, not a destination.
2. High levels of accomplishment almost always require hard work over a long period.
“Overnight successes” are rare, and are often misidentified. If you look closely, usually the person was practicing for 5-20 years before they were an “overnight success.”
Always be improving.
3. Life is unpredictable.
When young, people usually don’t know what they’re going to “do with their life.” That’s fine!
Life takes crazy, unexpected twists & turns.
Plans are great but expect to modify them.
Be adaptable and on the lookout for great, unexpected opportunities
4. Don’t let fear stop you.
Attempting hard things will bring stress, fear, and anxiety. If you avoid what you fear (more than is warranted by the level of danger) your potential will be curtailed.
Learn to push through your fears to do stressful things that are valuable.