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As the world becomes increasingly grumpy, the courteous gentleman has the opportunity not only to make a difference in the lives of others, but also to distinguish himself.

Here are some thoughts (notes-to-self, really) on being that kind of man.

 On greeting others with enthusiasm, like you're actually happy to see them--

https://t.co/eK1rfM015V
On treating your conversations like they matter--

https://t.co/hOaVPMRWs4
On kindness towards the overlooked--

https://t.co/pxxXDX28wp
On learning names, especially of the overlooked--

https://t.co/gCGvW6lgZW
On avoiding defensiveness--

https://t.co/EBhQiuPJGF
On accepting compliments--

https://t.co/wyQh6olFIX
On saying thank you the best way--

https://t.co/Qx3P9e3R1M
On never dismissing others--

https://t.co/NplgHVFv2R
On embracing small talk--

https://t.co/b0tmumyVzp
On not overstaying your welcome--

https://t.co/qJNYBy5a3S
And, of course, your courtesy becomes all the more potent when you do it from a position of strength.

You are not nice, not domesticated, not a pushover hiding weakness behind manners--you are a potentially dangerous man who chooses kindness and warmth.

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Sam is my middle child & he’s a terror. A “boy’s boy” as so many (not me) would say. He’s rough and tumble, he’s loud, he’s always dirty, loves trucks, plays sports and knee drops me from the couch. But he also loves a lot of “girl” things.

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A Xtian missionary was sent to Assam for the promotion of religion. His name was Cruz. He came across to one the boys from an influential family in Assam to teach him English.
@noconversion

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The p@stor slowly began to study the house and he learned that the boy's grandmother was the most influential person in the house. So he thought 'Corrupting the grandmother's mind can make the whole family Xtian as well as the whole village.

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The p@stor began to tell Grandma the stories of how J€$u$ cured leprosy of lepers, how He gave sight to the blind, etc..But after listening to him, the strong Sanatani grandmother said. A stone turned into a living woman (Ahalya) for our Rama when he touched the stone.

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She spoke of Rama setu where stones floated in sea just by writing his name on the stones and that they are still floating today.
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इस भाव से हम व्यक्ति की रोगप्रतिरोधक क्षमता, सिर, मष्तिस्क का विचार करते हैं।


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