When you have deep relationship problems with a woman, you fix it by love bombing her not through honest dialogue, because hurt women are selfish. They don't give a fuck about the pain they caused (hers matters more), and they don't want to hear an analysis of how they fucked up.
Women don't take accountability for the damage they cause. Trying to force them to be accountable for it just makes them less cooperative, because their low stress tolerance means any truthful examination of their mistakes will cause them pain and in turn further instability.
They will simply dismiss, forget or not really absorb what you say if you try being honest, and tell them in a straight way. If you keep pressing it and can prevent her from running away, you will at best get some weak excuses and perhaps an apology. THAT'S *THE BEST* you'll get.
If you can't prevent her from running away, she will just run away.
Women have no sense of honour in thinking "I've hurt this man, I need to make sure he will be alright"
No. She will absorbed in her own pain, you will not even be a consideration.
A woman can love you more than anything on this planet - and she will do this.
And you causing her additional stress by being mad at her and seeking answers only pushes her further away.
She will never meet your needs and right her wrongs.
See why they're beneath us now?