1/ As I prepare to launch the biggest thing of my career 👀 I've been reflecting on my journey to this point. And the simple truth is - design changed my life.

But not in the way you think as I did not become a designer.

2/ Instead, I found an incredibly welcoming community that rallied around and helped when I did not have much to offer.
3/ On a very cold and rainy November morning in 2012, I arrived in Dublin, Ireland with less than 1k euro in my pocket, having never worked in tech and very few connections in the city.
4/ Before that, I spent a very turbulent 9 years in Canary Islands working in hospitality, with a short stint in London in between where I got some experience in sales and recruitment.
5/ I arrived in Dublin kind of lost but had one goal, I wanted to start a company so I could make enough money to realize my dream of opening a restaurant (LOL) Funny how that turned out.
6/ To get started, I worked in a hotel to get myself set up in the city and find a place to live. It was awful, terrible pay, never-ending days and stolen tips, but that's another story. It got me set up and I quit after 3 months to go back into sales.
7/ This job was also awful but it taught me a lot and I started to understand some of the skills I had that were actually transferrable from my experience in restaurants. I then decided to go back to recruitment, something I enjoyed before but did not spend enough time on.
8/ The design story starts here. At first, I was hiring software engineers, BA's, PM's, etc till one day my colleague who ran the design desk asked me to help source a few design profiles.
9/ I remember this day as if it was yesterday, I was immediately captivated opening the portfolio and mind blown that there were teams of people working on the experience of products I used and recognized.
At first, becoming part of the community was not easy.
10/ But I quickly learned to lead with vulnerability and transparency, essentially not pretending to know what design was. I was also genuinely curious to learn more. This seemed to resonate, I was slowly becoming a part of the Dublin design community.
11/ I also went completely against the typical tactics most other recruiters were forced to use. Instead of annoying people with pointless phone calls, I would schedule them in the evening and do them at home. Or offer to meet candidates for a coffee instead.
12/ This resonated too, I was quickly building great relationships which started opening some doors.
13/ But design recruitment at the time in Dublin was a very small market, however, I had a hunch more companies would catch on to the value of design and ramp up hiring 12-18 months later, I asked my boss if I could spend 3 months building relationships instead of chasing…
14/ …business that did not really exist. That ask was shot down and a seed was planted in my head that I should maybe do this on my own. A few months later, without thinking through it all, I jumped ship and set up on my own.
15/ It was here I really realized the power of relationships and community. I started this thing with no money but the community carried my dream of building a business for much much longer than it should have actually lasted.
16/ The first day I set up my company email, I received an intro to what turned out to be my best client. Intros to amazing candidates followed and kept coming. But filling roles was a long cycle and money was running out quickly, the next year was extremely tough.
17/ I was riddled with anxiety, could not sleep thinking about finding money for all the bills and rent that were piling up.
18/ Yet the community acted as my therapist without realizing it, every interaction was lead by asking how I was doing and how they could help, I don't think I ever told anyone how those simple interactions kept me from completely falling apart.
19/ There's a lot more to the business story, maybe I'll write something about that one day.
20/ The whole experience lead me to build many more wonderful relationships, which eventually turned into joining InVision where I helped run some of the global design community initiatives and now joining On Deck to build the design fellowship. This journey has been wild.
21/ Why am I sharing this?
1. I want to improve my writing this year.
2. I promised @EricFriedman I'd ship something by Monday.
3. This is a good reminder of how choosing an unclear path can sometimes work out.
4. I'm terrible at sharing personal things.
22/ Now back to all things launch, see you on Tuesday 🚀
Shout out to @starsoup7 and @eriktorenberg for asking great questions this week and stirring up some memories

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Around 2012, while on summer break from what I felt was a lackluster school year, I was kind of at a breaking point. A prominent designer was peddling this self-help program, a $6000 weeklong workshop that centered around dinner with him and his influential friends.

His response to a fan who was deeply inspired by him and wanted to be a better designer, who asked "what if I can't afford the $6000?" was "You simply don't *want* to afford it." It's not a priority for you. I remember seeing it on Facebook and getting up from my chair.

It was gross, and it felt like the latest incident in what seemed like a long generational road of manipulating impressionable young people into thinking that the only thing stopping them from having the lives of these visible figures was passion

It felt wrong. Absolutely wrong. I thought about my best friend from high school. Someone just as—if not more—talented than me in art. Both of us dreamed of going to the same art school. Only one of us did. His familial socioeconomics as his undocumented status made it impossible

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Once upon a time there was a Raja named Uttānapāda born of Svayambhuva Manu,1st man on earth.He had 2 beautiful wives - Suniti & Suruchi & two sons were born of them Dhruva & Uttama respectively.
#talesofkrishna https://t.co/E85MTPkF9W


Now Suniti was the daughter of a tribal chief while Suruchi was the daughter of a rich king. Hence Suruchi was always favored the most by Raja while Suniti was ignored. But while Suniti was gentle & kind hearted by nature Suruchi was venomous inside.
#KrishnaLeela


The story is of a time when ideally the eldest son of the king becomes the heir to the throne. Hence the sinhasan of the Raja belonged to Dhruva.This is why Suruchi who was the 2nd wife nourished poison in her heart for Dhruva as she knew her son will never get the throne.


One day when Dhruva was just 5 years old he went on to sit on his father's lap. Suruchi, the jealous queen, got enraged and shoved him away from Raja as she never wanted Raja to shower Dhruva with his fatherly affection.


Dhruva protested questioning his step mother "why can't i sit on my own father's lap?" A furious Suruchi berated him saying "only God can allow him that privilege. Go ask him"
I hate when I learn something new (to me) & stunning about the Jeff Epstein network (h/t MoodyKnowsNada.)

Where to begin?

So our new Secretary of State Anthony Blinken's stepfather, Samuel Pisar, was "longtime lawyer and confidant of...Robert Maxwell," Ghislaine Maxwell's Dad.


"Pisar was one of the last people to speak to Maxwell, by phone, probably an hour before the chairman of Mirror Group Newspapers fell off his luxury yacht the Lady Ghislaine on 5 November, 1991."
https://t.co/DAEgchNyTP


OK, so that's just a coincidence. Moving on, Anthony Blinken "attended the prestigious Dalton School in New York City"...wait, what? https://t.co/DnE6AvHmJg

Dalton School...Dalton School...rings a

Oh that's right.

The dad of the U.S. Attorney General under both George W. Bush & Donald Trump, William Barr, was headmaster of the Dalton School.

Donald Barr was also quite a


I'm not going to even mention that Blinken's stepdad Sam Pisar's name was in Epstein's "black book."

Lots of names in that book. I mean, for example, Cuomo, Trump, Clinton, Prince Andrew, Bill Cosby, Woody Allen - all in that book, and their reputations are spotless.