Okay, let's start this hypersomnia thread!
[note - I am not looking for unsolicited advice.]
Idiopathic hypersomnia or narcolepsy (not the same, but similar) is very hard to describe to people.
When I say "I slept 10 hours last night and I'm still tired" I'm not bragging. 1/16
For me, the accommodations I need are about time. My body doesn't care what I want to do - when I want to wake up or be asleep. My body wants to wake up at 10-11am, and go to sleep at 3am, always.
Just a one hour shift in my sleep schedule can screw me up for days. 2/16
When I tell people that I'd really "prefer it" if we could meet at 10am or later, it's because getting up before that has consequences for me. Big consequences. Most people won't see them. Sometimes I still give in and say it's fine. It ruins 2-3 of my days, sometimes more. 3/16
Let me explain. When I am required to wake up at 9am, esp. in covid times working from home, my body pays me back for it later.
I'm going to show you ways this happens. I can usually withstand 1 day of waking up early, with some consequences, but 2 days in a row kills me. 4/16
Let's say this graph represents Day 1, the first time I am required to get up early. The y-axis is my level of Sleepiness. Any symptom listed higher up includes that symptom + every other symptom below it. Getting up that early means I can't listen or concentrate all day. 5/16