How to befriend any stranger.
Easy method to build respect based friendships with new people.
PS: Don't read if you feel bad about manipulating people.
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Before we start, what you need to know is that there are two types of strangers:
-Those bothered by you
-Those who are willing to talk to you
In both cases, the first seconds of making contact are crucial.
Here is how you should approach both.
First thing you need to realize, is that while you're only practicing your social skills
The person in front has absolutely no interest or reason to listen to you.
This is why it is of paramount importance NOT to talk about yourself.
Make them feel comfortable.
Before we get to what you will say and how.
Let's focus on body language.
To trigger anyone's curiosity, you should convey a confident and reassuring vibe.
Your posture should be showing confidence without intimidating your interlocutor.
How can your body language express positive vibes?
- Straight back
- Wide shoulders
- Pumped chest (dont over do it)
- Genuine smile
- Stay at least a meter away from the person, you want to show interest but you want them to come to you