Y’all... please check on your kids, they might not be okay.
My husband and I had no clue that a major crisis was coming for our 14 year old. She was so good at faking “okay” that we were totally blindsided.
I’m apprehensive about sharing all of this, but other parents
1/15
might need to see this and talk to their kids.
To make a long story as short as possible:
On Jan 13th, I came home from work to find my 14 yr old unconscious in a pile of vomit. Thought maybe it was the flu or something at first.
I got her into a bath to clean up and
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she was incoherent, slurring her speech, and not really in control of her body. I put it together and realized she was drunk.
She had never done anything like that. Ever. She then started babbling about being so lonely and wanting to go to sleep and not wake up.
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My heart and stomach dropped.
We took her to the ER for alcohol poisoning and told the triage nurse what she’d been drunkenly mumbling about.
It took almost 24 hours to get her BAL back to normal, then she was transferred to a psychiatric hospital.
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They kept her for 6 days, and we weren’t allowed to see her. Just one 10 minute phone call per day.
They started her on two medications for depression, anxiety, and sleep. She seems to be feeling a bit better since coming home, and now knows that she needs to talk
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