Nothing is wrong with patterns.
However, there is a problem when all you have are patterns.
It's boring.
'Can you explain why?'
Sure π
A relationship begins to get stiff when excessive patterns begin to form.
Too many patterns leads to a boring, predictable, logical lifestyle.
Get the emotions involved.
Do something spontaneous out of the blue moon & flip the script.
Nothing is wrong with patterns.
However, there is a problem when all you have are patterns.
It's boring.
'Can you explain why?'
Sure π
It's very difficult to logically explain love, right?
'Right.'
Well this is where you want to steer the ship the right way.
1. Too emotional is bad.
2. Too logical is bad.
Let me break it down.
If a relationship is completely ruled by emotions, then it's too volatile.
You will never reach productivity if you are aimlessly only following each others emotions.
This lifestyle tarnishes any structure for the couple.
'So why do people do it?'
You may ruled by this stage in the honeymoon phase.
Normal.
You'll be so spontaneous that it almost becomes a lifestyle.
But it's hard to level up your life when you're too spontaneous.
Avoid.
This happens later on in the relationship.
You 2 have gotten to know each other.
Got the honeymoon phase out of the way.
Now?
All you do is the same shit.
Day in & day out.
*yawn*
'So why do people do this if it's so bad?'
Few reasons.
You feel like you two have already gotten each other.
No more need to spice it up.
Results?
The zest you once had becomes bland.
A bland relationship is one of the leading causes of breakups.
What was once magical is no more.
Uh oh.
'What do I do?'
You flip the script homie!
I'm not going to give you activities, that's something you can do research on your own.
But I do want to give a solid piece of advice.
Always keep romancing one another.
Do not be content.
You should always be courting the person you're dating.
'Ah so no contentment?'
Correct.
