*Thread* - the hack is wack
The Master Life 'Hack' to Solve All Problems
What's easier?
Developing psychology & exerting willpower to not eat a pantry full of your favorite snacks
or
Not having those temptations in the house
Many 'solutions' being presented to people don't work
Designed to cope with the problem instead of resolving it
Darkness is the absence of light
You can't resolve or remove the darkness
You can only add more light
Recent viral obsessions with 'healing', 'being stoic', 'mental models & psychology'
They all serve their place AFTER the root has been handled
Before adding things to increase testosterone, remove what inhibits it
Before adding 'hacks', remove things causing conflict
If a person fears confrontation & is not assertive
Techniques & thinking offer some support, but the real question is
Why is this the default behavior?
Without starting with this question
All solutions are merely Band-Aids to mask & cope with the symptoms
In reality the real root of his fear of asserting himself & confrontation may likely be: